Bila Berdua Menjalankan Tanggungjawab

Ahlan Wasahlan :)

It was a productive weekend as Haffby and I had the opportunity to settle apa yang patut for the arrival of our baby in our arms.. 

Maklum lah, minggu lepas g IKEA, punya lah ramai manusia sejagat yang datang sana, either for the food atau memang nak beli barang la kot.. I went with my mom n dad last week and to tell you the truth, satu barang yg kami nak cari pun tak jumpa.. seddeyh~~!

So, minggu ni.. Realising the fact that kami ada masa terluang.. On Saturday morning, En Haffby bangunkan saya dah asked me to get ready for our mayernity shoot.. *maafkan saya.. Sedari diri, i am having  terrible time to really sleep comfortably at night nowadays.. I can only sleep after Subuh prayers.. * .. So, I woke up and got myself ready for the shoot, and also to prepare some props for the shoot.. Sebab En Haffby dah sediakan semua peralatan kamera semua..aku pulak kena la ambik mood kengkonon macam nak masuk majalah kann.. :D *kalau tak over tu bukan Sarah  Yasmin la ye*..

Memandangkan semua benda ala ala sdn. Bhd. , kami pun buat make up sendiri and sambil berjalan tu sambul pikir idea sebab it is very impromptu.. My husband chose Laman Seni kat Seksyen 7, since dekat dengan rumah my grandparents and also dia tak nak buli i lebih untuk gerak sini sana kann.. :) 

The photoshoot went well, takde ambik masa sampai setengah hari even.. Reason being is that mak yong sorang dah panas and ketiba sudah.. *google lah ye ayat Ketiba tu* :p

After that, we head on to Ikea, nak beli barang si kenit in my stomach since minggu lepas barang habis.. True enough, nak kena carik dengan Apaknye jugak, baru lah semua barang ada :) 

Jalan punya jalan, last last Haffby surrendered and requested for me to drive home sebab dia dah kepenatan tahap minyak kereta dah blink blink.. Memikirkan En Suami yang dah banyak layan karenah Mak Yong Yasmin ni, i pun bawak je la kereta tu dari Ikea sampai ke Shah Alam.. Alhamdulillah, sesi konsert bersama Mak Yong berjalan lancar dalam kereta, ditemani dengam background Haffby berdengkur kepenatan..All in all, everyone is happy, and I believe the baby pun happy .. As for now.. Tick tock tick tock :) 

Happy Anniversary to Hafmynn!

Salam!!!
Hehe... apesal tahun ni ada habit delay memanjang eh? asyik belated je... Dari besday suami hari tu, semua entry pun belated... saya sangat ketienggalan zaman lorh! :D

Okay sebenarnya ada cerita la.. bukan sebab suka suki je nak delay posting..hehe...

Al Kisahnye gini ye.... On that very day before our 2nd wedding anniversary, Haffby ada ajak dating dekat One Utama... katanya dah lama tak tengok wayang dengan sang isteri yang semakin besar bagaikan Johan inihhh.... So, haritu dah plan dah.. after our religious class, nak solat zuhur and terus chow to the mall... Unfortunately, pagi tu bangun bangun je dah rasa tak sedap badan and macam mata kelabu satu macam... masa tu ingat less sugar ke ape badan ni?

So, I cakap kat dia yang i nak rest dulu... lepas zohor tengok macamana... sekali. amekkaw! tertidur sampai almost Asar and I got up... went to him and said sorry that I was not able to make it... being as cool as always, dia just senyum and cakap "It's okay, you just rest okay?"...

Jadi, I was having a terrible chill fever sampai la hari Selasa... semua tusyen cancel, semua aktiviti nak mengemas rumah pun terbantut sebabnye memang tak larat and lay flat on the bed sahaja... anniversary pun very simple... (tu la, orang tua tua kata jangan nak excited melampau sangat, ni lah padahnye)

However, the day had come pun hari tu... he wished me first while I'm still drowsy on the bed, baca wish dia dekat FB... hehe! wah,sangat zaman University kan? Semua pakai handphone hajooooo...

Anyway, to my husband..

Happy Anniversary to you,B. You show me that love in reality is not as the same at all in those fairy tales, but to make it happen, we have to work for it kan? May Allah bless you and thank you for being you.. Looking forward to spend more and more time with you.. :) Love you always, suami! 

A Day to The Exact Date: Little Things Matter (At Times)

Salam :) 

As promised, I will be sharing my own thoughts and experience being a wife for almost two years.. However, sekali lagi I nak pesan.. Tujuan I meluahkan dekat sini is not definitely to berlagak or what.. Tapi I just feel like sharing in a way boleh gain feedback from others about their opinion and stuffs regarding marriage life to develop ourself better kan.. Feel free to comment if there's anything that you feel like sharing :) 

Anyway, yes. As mentioned in the title above.. Little things matter.. Little things kat sini bukan bermaksud benda yang kecil diperbesar besarkan buat gaduh..

No, No, No! 

What I am trying to highlight is that in our daily life, tak semestinya marriage life only.. Benda yang orang buat untuk kita, walaupun tak mahal mana, walaupun tak besar mana.. Kita wajar hargai sesuatu tu. Terkadang, kita tak pun tau apa yang orang tu lalui untuk buat kita happy kan kan! 

Antara benda benda kecil yang kita leka kadang kadang is:- 

•Lupa nak cakap Thanks bila orang tolong

•Lupa nak say Please bila perlukan bantuan seseorang

•Susah nak balas senyuman orang, padahal free je kut dapat pahala ;p

•Alpa untuk bersyukur dengan apa yang orang bagi and tolong...

When it comes to marriage, I personally feel that ada banyak benda benda kecil, mudah and tak mahal pun boleh dilakukan untuk buat pasangan kita happy maaa... 

•Kalau kita tak mampu nak belanja, kita boleh try masak kat rumah untuk En Somi. Tak perlulah kita nak masak benda fancy, yang penting effort tu ada tau. :) 

•Salam tangan suami tu sebelum dia pergi mana mana. Tapi kalau dia nak p tandas tu ko jangan la buat pasal nak salam bagai.. Hahaha

•Sometimes, walaupun dah selalu sangat cakap.. Tak salah if kita cakap "I Love You" kat dia, tak kisah la through whatssap ke, telegram ke, telephone ke lan kan! 

•Simple question to make things go lively and perhaps lovely.. "Yang, how was your day today?".. Just to get your partner share about their day at work.. Of course you tak nak partner you end up stress and cakap dengan dinding kannnnn :p

•Kengkadang, benda yang dia buat tu.. Kita pun boleh buat.. Macam lipat baju, sidai baju, iron baju.. Tapi, tak salah pun buat dia happy and dihargai.. Always say Thank You, walaupun benda dia buat tu kecik je :) 

•Kalau dia marah ke apa, tak salah kalau kita diam and kalau tak nak keruhkan keadaan, say sorry first lorrrrr ;) 

•Walaupun dah kahwin, jangan hilang the sweetness. Maybe some couples forgot to be sweet. Why not pegang tangan bila jenjalan kat mall? malu? Hakktuiii. :p

I rasa these are some of the things that can make you ponder.. But I am sure there are many things tau..always remember it takes two to tango okay you olls! 

3 More Days to Hafmynn's Anniversary: A lookback :)

Assalamualaikum!

As previous year, I should be doing all these reflect and look back a week before the real date of our solemnisation.. But this year is kind of a busy year for me *padahal dah tak larat sebab asyik mengah and dah mula rasa penat. Maklum la, reaching 32 weeks bebeh!*

Okay, so the moment I am typing this, it is alreadh 23rd January 2015, which means it's going to be 3 more days for my marriage with le husband reaches 2nd year :) 

Eleh, mesti ada yang baca ni cakap I poyo ke ape ke kan, but lantak lah. This is my blog and I have reasons why I am doing this.. And nawaitu saya bukan la sebab saya nak berlagak or what, but this is ala ala tribute or a walk of memory lane gituhhhh...

Well, being a wife is not easy. In a way, apa apa pun mesti kena dahulukan suami.. Terkadang lupa yang kita ni terlalu rapat dengan family kita sebelum

kahwin, jadi dah macam terbiasa if kita dahulukan parents.. and this is including me I must say..

It takes a hard time for me to betul betyl faham konsep "dahulukan suami dulu no matter   what".. Bukan nak jadi kuno ke apa, tapi that's the fact. Did u know that even if your husband forbids you dari jumpa you parents, you just have to follow? Lucky me, my husband is not that kind of person.. Alhamdulillah,dia sangat  tolerate walaupun I kena faham yang dia play role as Along dalam adik beradik dia and he has to utamakan his parents juga.. Ingat ye, kalau melawan kita dah consider derhaka pada somi. Tak nak le gitchuu.. Hehe

So, how to elak from all this gaduh gaduh,tengking  tengking and tarik muka sesh? Well, I believe that communication is important.. In a way, kita kan perempuan.. We have our advantage of being a female to talk nicely with the husband.. After all, takkan la husband u nak makan u? Hehehe

Apa yang I sendiri experience is that.. Whatever things that you do, memang kena fikir betul betul. Lagi lagi kita ni perempuan, bila marah tu.. Kemainn.. Pikir la yang "laki den tak sayang den",  "tah pape tah, sikit sikit nak marah" atau pun asal gaduh sikit je "Jah nak balik rumah mak Jah. Jah tak kira".. Hai yang sampai nak balik rumah mak tu yang tak tahan tu.. Sampai bila nak ada attitude macam ni? Cer Jah blajar kira.. Hehehe :) 

Memang betul yang kita ni sangat la sensentap.. Haaa. Akak dah keluar vocab baru.. Sensitip plus kuat sentap = Sensentap.. Tu biasa la perempuan.. Tapi, I started to think about kenapa husband tu acted that way? asal dia macam hingaq sangat kalau tak dengar kata?

Alahaii.. Sebab dia sayang kita la wahai kawan kawan.. I admit, masa awal awal kahwin--> adegan tarik muka, ekspresi sinetron indonesia kalau bengang (kan dia pause ala ala 5 minit sebab nak focus muka bengang pelakon tu), cerita cinta korea yang suka tarik tali (bila laki kau pujuk kata sorry, kau beria tak nak, konon nak makan romantik, puiii) and many more tu adalah terjadi dalam hubungan.. Ate, dah namanya drama queen! :p

Namun.. I belajar yang kalau nak selamat.. Diam je dulu.. Sakit hati macamana, diam je dulu. Yang kau gaduh beria macam WWE tu apa dapat? Lelaki ni ego.. Kalaupun diorang salah, ko hengat diorang nak mengaku on the spot? Eh kamon lah.. Tengok cerita sembilu.. Awie yg marah kat erra tu pun ambik mood naik motor siar siar satu KL dulu tau sebelum pujuk Erra.. Kui kui kui :p

Anyway, apa yang penting.. Toleransi. Sakit macamana pun hati perempuan, ingatlah.. Suami kau bukannya sengaja nak marah marah ke ape.. Life is alearning  process.. Kalau kita boleh bertindak dengan baik, kenapa pula nak keruhkan keadaan?

Another thing I learnt is that.. And also

Practice ye.. Deep inside your heart memang la nangis nangis tahap menikam bantal bantal kekabu tu.. Tapi percaya la.. Istighfar dan zikir banyak banyak..Sangat membantu..

And jangan pernah rasa diri tu kesorangan.. Allah kan ada :) berdoa selalu ye..jadi marilah kita sama sama jadi isteri yang sabar dan munasabah diri inshaaAllah :) 

Cerita saya ni sebagai perkongsian ye.. Jangan pulak ikut mana yg tak baik ye kawan kawan :) 

My Pregnancy Story: How I find Out

Salam :)
Mata ni tak boleh lelap pula...
So, let me share about my pregnancy with all of you ya... :)

The Moment of Truth

Okay, frankly speaking.. I didn't expect this pregnancy as I got so fed up having to wait and hope for false alarm sebab dulu terlalu mengharap.. Orang tua tua kan pernah cakap yang jangan terlalu fikir and terterkan pasal sesuatu perkara, lagi lagi melibatkan zuriat... and true enough, masa dapat tau i'm pregnant, I was like......... SERIOUSLY???? ALHAMDULILLAH!!!! Okay, so the chronicles are as following:-

• I got a serious fever and runny nose. Masa tu first week of puasa 2014, and third week i'm working at my new workplace... So, masa pagi nak pergi kerja tu.. Haffby pesan suruh pergi doktor untuk get some meds untuk cool down the fever and runny nose.. sebab dia cakap badan I sort of panas and dia kata I macam tak larat... 
• So, sebagai isteri yang baik *biasa la, mesti ada selingan carry the own basket one*, I went to to clinic dengan harapan, "Doktor, tolong la bagi mak cik MC. Mak cik dah tak larat asyik nak lap selemo ni, dengan kepala denyut denyut nak drive bagai".. So, I pretty well remembered what was the first question, actually second question Doctor asked me after dia tanya khabar. The question was "When was your last period?".. So i dengan selamba je jawab... and by then I memang dah lambat a week... but me, being as lampi as I can when it comes to all these matters, I cakap it's normal sebab my period is always irregular. She insisted for me to pee on the stick jugak, but I still refused sebab takut false alarm.. nak dekat masuk sepuluh minit dia pujuk...aku tak nak jugak..pastu dia cakap "Yasmin, I cannot simply prescribe you the meds because I don't know what's your situation. So, I suggest... you go home and rest, I will give you MC. if you change your mind and decided to take the test, kat rumah or here, let me know the results. Then only I can bagi you ubat"... Okay, dengan senyum sinis, I angguk and just went off. 
• Kebetulan, masa yang sama.. memang I nak ke Guardian *my favourite place sebab entah la... i suka sangat masuk Guardian ke, Watsons ke, Sasa ke, just because I love all those wangi wangi things..hahaha*.. I memang nak beli toiletries and so on... pastu lalu la kat row pregnancy kit tu... dalam hati gatal nak beli jugak, jadi tangan pun tolong hati and letak pregnancy kit tu dalam bakul :D
• Balik rumah, solt zuhur... tidor. Ya allah, mengulor betul hari tu.... hidung asyik berair je masa tu. hahaha.. so, came Asar prayer, and sebelum ambik wudhuk tu, asyik terfikir apa doktor cakap... tapi dalam hati sibuk berkata "Haiii! Tewas lagi... kena ke kencing jugak kat benda alah ni?"... So, I did... and masa tu I tengok takde pun double line...So, i ambik wudhuk and just biarkan that UPT kat tepi sinki.. dengan harapan akan dibersihkan selepas solat asar nnt... 
• Then, lepas solat asar.. I masuk bilik air nak buang benda tu... and I got the biggest shock of my life.. nangis... uwek uwek uwek... eh silap.. uwaa uwaa uwaaaaaaa... double line... tak tersangka.... terus keluar bilik air... and sujud syukur... alhamdulillah.... 
• Bila dah tau macam tu, baru la semua benda teringat.. sebelum I demam teruk tu, I ada cakap kat my husband I teringin sangat nak makan Hummus... sampai berair mata whatssap dia cakap nak jugak makan tu no matter what.. and dia pun belikan i.. tapi, bila sampai waktu berbuka, i just makan dua suap je... Pastu, dah tak nak... masa tu Haffby macam pelik la.. mana taknya, beria ia kata nak makan, tapi last last dua suap je :D 
• So, we broke the news to our family, mainly his family and my family... alhamdulillah, semua pun happy... and we are also very happy, and yes..bersyukur!

However, both me and Haffby learnt that Allah tidak pernah tidur, and Allah sentiasa tahu bila nak memberikan sesuatu kepada Hambanya... Yang penting, kita kena berdoa, selalu. :) 

till then, nanti I sambung lagi inshaaAllah :) 

Happy(Belated) Birthday Post for Hubs *LOL*

Salam.
Just a quick update.. :)
I have mentioned earlier about me doing the pavlovas for husband's small birthday celebration di Surau.

Here I am, taking the opportunity to wish my husband, Hafiz Ismail a very Happy 27th Birthday to you sayang.. May you have all the nicest things in the world, you just name it all. Semoga Allah panjangkan umur, murahkan rezeki dan merahmati you selalu... *walaupun kengkadang rasa macam nak sumbat bantal kat mulut i bila i membebel banyak kan?but cannot do anything la dear, it's very me and it's nature.. eh?*

Anyway, realising this year is going to be extra different because you soon are going to get a new title, no longer only a son, a brother, an uncle, a friend, a husband --> you are so going to be a DAD very soon. Inshaallah, I doakan supaya semua dipermudahkan dan you tabah untuk mengga;as tanggungjawab sebagai khalifah kepada I dan anak kita... :)

Ok, tak mau emo lebih... wishing you a very happy birthday and maafkan I kalau celebration tahun ni tak se va va voom macam tahun lepas.. heheh

I also want to share with the readers about the card that I gave to my husband... :) Love you, my forever haffby :)

The BitterSweet of 2014

Salam and hello!

I'm currently in front of my notebook, smiling and thinking about where to start.... true, some of my friends did contact me and asked me what happened to me? where have I gone missing and the 'kasar' but 'sayang' remarks like "hidup lagi ke tak tuan punya blog ni?"... hahah! yes, i'm still alive and getting lively day by day... 

2014... hmm, not just a plain number, not an ordinary year for me... this is going to be a long post... why? I shall start with things that I wish to recap throughout the journey in 2014... true enough, life is like a wheel...

My 2014 started with the beautiful celebration of my husband's birthday... he turned 26 this year and I am thankful for having supportive and loving family members around me to help me made the celebrations happened..and not to forget, his friends at his office who managed to work it out :) banyak betul celebration awak ye cik abang? Simply because I love you okay,, :D

Haffby and I on our 1st Wedding Anniversary. Love u Mucho!

Then, comes March,,, I was notified that my contract at my previous company *which I really enjoyed and had fun working and meeting new people other than gained new experience* was not to be continued... Sad, devastated and depressed - I have to admit... but thinking about motivation and words from people around me -- this is life, it has to go on and that's the cycle of life... always expect the unexpected kan? :)

This is my favourite clas- the subject, the lecturer and the people. oh btw, honored to have my lecturer as my thesis supervisor.. looking forward :D 

this #wefie will not happen if Farouuk didn't invite us to! oh yes, Farouk is our only male student in my class and he's a very capable guy. go find him, buy coffee and pray hard to be his soulmate. *wink wink!*

I felt better, thinking that there will be better opportunities await for me... and whilst I'm also furthering my masters in ESL - don't ask me why, my passion for teaching and talking are just in me,,, hehe..  So, there came June... worked with one of the colleges in Malaysia - no doubt enjoyed teaching..  BUT..... *a long, deep, SIGH*...

oh yes, before June came, there came May and we are all happy to witness a happy couple tied the knot... they are my cousin and good friend.. Alhamdulillah, after all the ups and downs that they went through, they ended those with a beautiful wedding and inshaaAllah marriage till Jannah, inshaaAllah.. i'm happy for both Emi and QissyFurbee.. :)

the cute and adorable couple. sayang ketat ketat!

Then came Ramadhan,,, at this time, I was just a few weeks working at my new workplace.. and Alhamdulillah.. I was confirmed pregnant.. and I'm beyond happy with the news and thankful that Allah heard my prayer... This is so going to be emotional... thinking about what Haffby and I need to go through for our one year and 6 months' marriage, finally our junior is going to be in our arms soon :)

Moi at 28 weeks (26 December, 2014)

Added with another happy news, QissyFurbee was too, confirmed pregnant.. so we both are officially preggers now and our due date is really close to each other,, Kuasa Allah SWT.. :)

Wrote this when I was invigilating examination @ 19, going 20 weeks of Pregnancy :)

As the days went by, we received another cute family member.. it is Muhammad Ali Zidane, the son of my brother and my sister in law.... this boy is so cute and manja,,,, now he's almost going to be 5 months and I tell ya, he can really melt your heart..comel sangat! :)

Kak Adreanna and Baby Zidane. They are adorable, kan! :D

Still, the bonding between me, Aqeef and Adreanna are also going well.. both of them are growing up too fast and with my condition right now, I can't be doing much other than entertaining them while grasping for air! hahaha! :)

When it comes to friendship, biasa la.. people come and go.. i'm no longer being so emotional and hanky panky thinking about kenapa kawan tu dah tak nak kawan dengan kita, kenapa macam aku syok sendiri and all.. to me, this is life.. Yasmin, you just have to accept the fact that people change and you change as well but you didn't notice it.. therefore, with the preference of #watlekwatpeace , i'm happier and never felt better...

The new friends that I'm glad to meet :) 

This is Elly, mommy of Elnaz, My partner in crime for EDU770A2 :D  - we can talk like forever! :D

But of course along the way, God send somebody for you to meet... as cliche as it sounded, either it's a blessing or a lesson... me? i regard both... in a way, new comers in your life are blessings in a way that there must be reason why God wants you to know her and why she needs to know you and etc... a lesson? eh come on la.. takkan la everytime cakap pasal lesson you dah senyum sinis thinking about it is satu penyesalan? heheh.. it could be a good lesson as well.. so far, Alhamdulillah.. 2014 has been pretty easy going year for me...

However, to be honest.. though personally my year has been going on okay and pretty good, to see t.. the people around me, especially in Malaysia is worrying,, the floods, the missing airplanes and so on... true enough that 2014 is a truly challenging year for us in Malaysia, but one thing for sure.. never give up praying for the miracle to happen... inshaaAllah, the year 2015 would be a better year for us all :)

Al Fatihah 

Oh yes, since this is quite long perhaps I would want to continue my so called 2015 resolution in the next post :)

Take care lovely readers, yes.. I miss you as much as you miss me *okay, perasan!* :)

Langkawi : Cheq dah Maii! (Day 1)

Salam Semuanya!

Maaf la kakak kawasan sedang asyik bercuti dan bercuti di Langkawi... Serious rasa macam malu sangat sebab dah 26 tahun hidup pun tak pernah jejak kaki ke Pulau Langkawi... so, this year, me and hubs have decided to pergi Pulau Langkawi as a retreat or ala ala second MaduBulan la ek.. I'm thankful that my spouse pun minat benda yang I minat which is Pulau! we love islands... first MaduBulan dulu pun we went to Krabi.... Beautiful, SubhanALLAH!

Okay, so not to make you bored.. let's start with my journey to Langkawi... Hari Khamis, which is 13th March 2014- our flight depart to Pulau Langkawi at 6.50 pm mcm tu sebab ada slight delay ye.. (sepatutnya pukul 6.20 pm), tapi jangan cakap banyak, sebab dah pilih Air Asia- Now Everybody Can Fly, dah semestinya Everybody Must Wait ye tak? LOL

Ouh ya. lupa nak habaq.. I takde la p dengan Haffby sahaja, we also went with my crazy Auntie Rose and also my lovely cousin, Asmara... haih, kalau dah Ompek orang yang pergi.. maka dengan jayanya jadi gila lah kami berOmpek.. LOL

Day 1 (Thursday, 13th March 2014)

Hari ni okay je... tapi okay tu okay yang luar biasa... Sesampainya kami di Langkawi., I pun bajet bajet gagah gigih je nak ambik bag my aunt and my cousin sebab kengkonon dari sudut fizikal, i look Gagah-er than them.. (since Haffby naik flight malam, jadi beta harus lah berdikari, bukan BeliKari ye).. Anyway, we took a taxi to our hotel at Chenang Beach. Masa ni memang lawak gila, sebab the three of us terpukau dengan kecantikan dan keindahan 5 Stars Resort di Langkawi iaitu Meritus, Casa Del Mar, Bon Ton dan sebagainya... Sekali, bila abang drebar kona masuk kiri jalan, my auntie dah suspen gila sebab jalan dah mula golap... setibanya kami di hotel,gelak sampai nak jadi arwah dibueknya sebab hotel kami is very EASY... maaf ye, I don't stay at 5 stars resort hotel at the moment, belum mampu... hahaha! serious la, abang drebar tu pun siap gelak tengok reaction kitorang.. :p Well, yes! We stayed at Easy Hotel in Chenang, a budget hotel, yang takde lift and takde hair dryer, tapi... who cares? naik tangga itu eksersais dan it is convenient sebab hello, you dekat Chenang okayh! :D

Anyway, dah puas terkekek kekek mak eloi eloi, kami pun naik la ke tingkat 3 *gigih, perlu gigih.. sebab kata nak kurus kan... bagus, bila time u nak kurus, u tak mintak pun u nak tingkat 3, tapi takpe, orang hotel bagi je tingkat 3..hoh!*.. So, after semua dah check in bilik, I pun rasa mcm nak wash up sekejap, sementara tunggu le husband mai dari KL, I pun ajak la Asmara masuk bilik untuk teman i... then suddenly realised that my luggage was unlocked? padahal I did lock it before I sent it off for check in.... haish.. pelik... dalam hati tu dah pikir bukan bukan nak draft letter to Air Asia... nak cakap itu ini and !@#$%^&*.. semua pun ado la...

Sebaik sahaja bukak bag, tadaaaaa! asal ada bantal busuk ni? asal ada jubah tetiba?

Apa lagi? Tutup bag, terus gelak.... tetiba baru la nak teliti bag, and yes! terSALAH bag! hahahahahaha...

why am i so careless? haih!

I sampaikan apa jadi kat my auntie... she laughed out loud... hahah! and soon, we head back to the airport, and yes, nasib baik jumpa my bag and tuan punya bag yang sedang mencari! hehe!

Since dah kat sana lama sikit, we decided to wait for Haffby's arrival... :) sebaik sahaja dia sampai, kami pun hebahkan dan gelak berdekah dekah..

Penat punya pasal, we ended renting a car, and soon head straight to Chenang Beach and makan at Telaga Seafood, Chenang Beach... and that's the end of Day 1. :)

Throwback Thursday:- 1st Anniversary Dinner

Salam and Hello All!

Yes, it is Thursday and it's throwback time!! *suka hati la nak buat hari apa hari Throwback! hahaha!* 

Ala, kalau nak kata throwback tu, takde lama banget... baru je hari tu..Bulan 1, tapi baru berpeluang nak hapdet semua benda kat sini yer!

Okay, so that day, Enchik Suami, aka Haffby dengan semangatnya cakap :"Yang, jangan lupa dinner malam ni..".. 

Whoah! *pause kejap, terkejut, terksima, terpanic, terharu, ter...terpikir nak pakai apa?LOL*

So, being me.. the Sarah Yasmin Azizan, I have always tons of questions to ask la kan.. seperti "Eh, ye ke? Kat mana?" and "Makanan dia makanan cemana?" and "B, I nak pakai apa?" and "Jauh tak?" AND "Reservation pukul berapa?"... hahaha..serious kepoh dot kom aku ni kan?

Jakun tu agak la sebabnya I know my husband ni... dia ni kalau bab bab nak buat serprais ni memang Epic sikit... I selalu dapat sense dulu... muahahahah! Anugerah tuhan maa, tak boleh kata apa la :p

So, bila dia kata dia nak bawak somewhere tu rasa macam.. bahagianyeee! *gedik, lempang please*

Jadi, malam ahad tu 26.012014, we head off to Masjid Bangsar and definitely dalam otak tu dah pikir "Confirm tempat ni dekat dengan Bangsar"...hahah.. yeap true enough, lepas Solat Maghrib, terus kami maju ke destinasi ye!

Rupa - rupanya pak cik dah reserve a table for two dekat The Ril's Bangsar... wah wah wah, fine dining okay! :) Sangat teruja, lepas berapa tahun kenal, after all those hardship and memories we went together for the past 7 years, dapat makan something really special... FYI, this is the second super special things that he made, and nanti tunggu ye, kalau ada masa i hash tag throwback balik macamana he popped out the question.. KaaaaChing! :p

Okay, based on the review on this restaurant, they serve nice fine dining and world class cocktails! amekkaw! Check it out here :)

Jadi, malas nak cakap banyak. I belanja you olls gambar ok? :)

Menu oh Menu

Starter... the nice and warm bread :)

To be eaten with these series of butter and dips :)

My Appetizer :- ntah apa tah... tapi potato... hahah

Mine! Baked Mac and Cheese 

His - beef steak! :D 

We.Us.Haffmynn

Hafmynn's 1st Wedding Anniversary

Salam!

Tadaaaaa.. Alhamdulillah, it's been a wonderful journey of 1 year and 4 days of our marriage... I must say that it is very early, macam baby jagung... But, what more can I asked for? Thankful enough... :) 

Since those younger days, I have a lot of conversation with momsie about marriage, family and actually more towards maintaining responsibilities as not only a girl... Mama selalu pesan, jadi perempuan ni bukan senang... we have to know how to really bring ourself, especially bila dah kahwin... chewah, look at me now, Mama! A girl who develops to be a lady...amboiii! kellas tak ayat mak? 

And true enough... life is always challenging.. the fact that you can never get anything you want, yes? however, that doesn't mean that the attempt on making something real shall stop there... Therefore, I learnt that if you want something to happen, you gotta work for it bebeh!

To me, marriage it self has taught me a lot in decission making, time management, the awareness of responsibilities... and most important, the need to fall in love with the same person daily :)

As it is said... "Indah nya perkahwinan".. yes it is, but need to remember, it needs two to tango :)

And to the love of my life, I love you beyond words, to the moon and back, and 'till Jannah I want to be with you :) Love you, Hafiz Ismail :) 

2 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Salam Salam Salamm :) 

Hehe.. okay fine.. you can punish me sebab tertinggal 2 hari.. but after all, it's good what? So that orang kurang menyampah kan? hahah! Nanti if you were to read all these marshmellow posts mesti macam malu dan tak hengen... lalu tiada selera nak melawat my belog,no? :p

Last three days, as I was busy doing some spring cleaning for our room, I spontaneously have the point to share with you about the differences between life before married and after married.. now now now, calm down anak anak! :D 

Okay, as life goes on..marriage is about RESPONSIBILITY :) true enough, we are all born with responsibilities, but more responsibilities to come after you decided to commit in certain things, yes? :)

Bila dah kahwin, your priority tends to change..maybe last time, you tend to think about yourself, tapi sekarang ni, there are more to think. :) some might not notice, some are aware... let's just go through some of the list:-

1. Sebelum kahwin, you eat for yourself... cari makan and not to think much about others at home sebab most of us have that thinking "confirm semua dah makan ni... ada kaki, ada tangan... buat semua sendiri!".. muahaha.. kejam? I know right.. but this will change eventually... You akan rasa lebih bertimbang rasa, or concern after kahwin.. sebab fikir.. suami u dah makan? everything is well prepared tak? Ingat Mak Cik cakap awal awal... tak nak kan jadi Isteri Durhaka? muahaha
2. Sebelum kahwin, jangan harap la nak basuh toilet ke ape setiap minggu... but hallu ladies, things are started to change...sebab automatically, you will always want the best for everything, yes? 
3. Sebelum kahwin, pack barang semua sendiri punya barang bila nak travel.. Sekarang? ha...semua kena tolong fikirkan.. :) 

In a way, life as a wife... it doesn't mean that you are just being a wife and to obey what your husband said... it's more towards carrying your responsibilities with effort, as well as to share what's your expectation, as well as you hubs.... 

Marriage life ni.. SPMS atau KPI tu doesn't limit to only twice a year.. it's all about reflecting... and kita sebagai wife, I believe it's really cliche for us to hold the title as manager in the family... of kos la  the hasbens jadi CEO :) 

At the end of the day, that's the bottom line.... mind to commit in more responsbilities? However, i never regret it :)



tick tock tick tock! soon... 26th January 2014 :D

5 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Assalamualaikum!
Yo, what's up?
As promised, this week will be a special week dedicated to my wedding anniversary ye! :)

Since we are five days away from our wedding anniversary, let me share with you another difference of before and after married,ye? :) I mentioned something else yesterday, siap ada drum rolls kan... today is another difference... and it's:-

You have 2 Families Now :) 

Yeap, true enough... Sebelum bercinta, tak dinafikan semua orang akan cuba memenangi hati bakal bakal mertua diorang... masa tu, belajar masak la.. nak pergi "menghadap" sanggup g beli baju baru ye tak? atau tak pun malam sebelum "menghadap" tu, habis satu lemari digodam nya.. kan? haha.. used to that...

I have to say that sebelum kahwin, a lot of riddles in your mind thinking about the norms that your "new" family have, their culture, their usuals and all la ek..

With Mom in Law

Tapi Alhamdulillah, after kahwin.. and when I get the chance to get to know my new family better, i am very thankful for having them as well...Very supportive, though some times my brothers in law can be too cheeky at times.. LOL.. To be frank, it's not easy to cope up with things.. ye la, nak jadi isteri yang baik, menantu pilihan, anak yang disayangi kedua ibu bapa, kakak yang pengasih, cewah... kan? Tak payah blajar tinggi sangat pun, tapi, tanggungjawab dah ada banyak dah.. Alhamdulillah, through thick and thin... I am coping up well.. tak caya? tanya la hasben i :p

Masa Raya 2013 - Ignore my selekeh-ness :D

With new auntie, new cousin :)

One of my brothers in law :)

So, kalau dah kahwin... there's no such things as pikir only the husband and wife sahaja... no such things as the world of both of you... but we have to be considerate, tolerate and accept whatever strength and weaknesses. :)

My Family :) 

Ha.. cukup la untuk hari ini ok? Apa pun, thank you, Alah for giving me the best parents in the world and the awesome parents in law in the world, Aminn!

6 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Salam Semua!

Yesss, I know... I know that the title resembles ke poyo-an blogger ini..namun...ada mak cik kisah? Ateeeee, dah kome datang sini nak membace, mak cik blanje jer ceghiter... ape susah sangat? :) 

So, yes! 6 more days until we are one year married.. we? siapa kah we? Awie? Ecewah! Of course me and Mr Haffby.. Yes, to think back... time flies so, and really or rather I should say VERY fast! 

Therefore, i'm gonna make entries, more like a countdown on my wedding anniiversary *which i doubt Haffby is reading it - well at least, if  am no longer in the world, my kids could read this and wonder how their momma rocks it all.. Teehee* 

Letak la gambar kitorang...kata feeling kann! :D

We are going to start the countdown by sharing differences of before married and after married... hehe! I know, mesti yang belum kahwin macam excited nak baca, while the ones yang dah kahwin confirm tertunggu tunggu nak tengok ada sama atau tak... kan! hahah... 

Since there are 6 more days to come... Jadi, let's just start with A difference first okeh! :) 

And here goes... the first difference is.... 

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Okay... perbezaan pertama:

  Bila Selisih Faham, Tak Boleh Lari Mana Dah! 

Haha... forgive me if this sounds so odd atau macam kureng... but this is the fact... Last time, zaman zaman bercinta dulu...kalau gaduh sikit je, boleh la lari... kat hostel, boleh la kunci and kurung diri dalam bilik sendiri... pakai kelas kosong main nyorok nyorok, pastu yang tak sakit pun berlakon sakit.. tak nak jumpa bagai..ala ala drama swasta kanss! oh yes, dengan harapan,, besok tu encik boypreng nak pujuk bagai la? 

Tapi..cer citer dengan mak cik.. macamana nak lari kalau dah kahwin? Ha...jangan carik pasal la wei.. Gaduh beria -ia, kalau nak kunci diri dalam bilik pun payah, sebab malam tu..abe nak tido mana? Kang tak bagi masuk, jadi pulak bini durhaka.. ish ish ish! heheh! Kann.. mana lak nak lari? 

But to think back... this is the beauty of marriage..during those days, you tend to argue, avoid and never realise what are the things that should be done... but lepas kahwin..things changed... yes, argument is always there... tapi, you tend to solve it accordingly and this is where tolerance takes place.. this can also help you get to know your partner well.. :) 

Jadi... bagaimana? Excited dengan entry harini? ahha... Nantikan another difference besok :)

My Husband Turns 26

Hello,Salam!

Yeap, i've been hibernating for so long. I have lots of things to share.. And yes, look at the topic.. Alhamdulillah, my husband turns 26, last 14.01.2014..

Well, decided to go for something different this year.. And since this year is the first year for us to celebrate this day together, apa lah lagi kan.. Mak Jems telah bersepakat dengan Office Mate Haffby yang sangat helpful and not to forget, gorgeous.. Namanya Fatin.. She helped to organise a surprise luncheon for le birthday boy a day before his birthday.. (13.01.2014) and Alhamdulillah, it all went well :) Haffby pun memang terkezut zut zut :p

Pada malamnya pulak, he thought it's only my parents and I je nak blanja dia makan.. Rupa rupanya the whole Jijan's Crew.. Waiting for him at the restaurant.. We celebrated at Marhaba Restaurant, Publika.. Happy to see everybody enjoyed their food and had such wonderful time :) 

Haa.. So here comes more exciting part.. The exact date of his birthday.. Nyehs! Pagi tu, i terpaksa tak bagitahu dia perkara sebenar.. *i'm sorry love, just wanted to surprise and make you happy on your 26th BornDay,gittew*.. so, off I went with my brother in law to fetch my youngest brother in law kat Ampang.. Ya Allah, rasa bersyukur sangat sebab segalanya dipermudahkan.. Kebetulan besday boy ada pulak masuk pertandingan kawad kaki comes berarak sempena Maulidur Rasul di Masjid Besi.. 

Tapi, disebabkan bagi alasan nak ambik eye glasses, gigihkan diri jugak menyeret my two brothers in law to come with me to Sunway Pyramid and take my glasses.. Phewh, nasib la sempat.. Tak dapat nak bayangkan kalau kena ambik on weekends.. Ampun, tak sanggup dengan nak hadap jam dan mencari parkir lagi.. Aduhhhh!!

Okay, biasa la ye.. Kalau i dah start bercerita, memang drama tu xboleh lari dari Sarah Yasmin Azizan ni.. hehe! Back to the story, all of is managed to work on another surprose for him.. This time around kat Wadihana Islamic Steakhouse, Bangi.. Ahhhaaa... Memang besday boi terkezut zut zut lagi and biasa la...i'm married to a very sensitive and emotional boi.. Jadi menitik skitttt air matanye.. Sebab dapat berkumpul dgn adik adik and parents together.. Siapa tak happy kalau dapat berkumpul dengan family kann??

Well Haffby, i really hope that this will be something meaningful for you.. I don't have much money to buy you luxorious things, I however have a heart to put effort in trying to make you happy.. :) 

Happy 26th Love. May Allah bless you. 

Sweet & Candy Fair 2013 @ UIA Gombak

Salam Readers!
Cak kun cak!
I'm back!

Ini cerita last weekend punya al kisah.... We decided to participate as one of the vendors at the Sweet & Candy Fair 2013 at UIA Gombak... Ni adalah hasil perbincangan Haffby and his brother, Hadi... as Hadi nak jual flower bouquets with his friends....

So, gagahkan diri jugak... last week was a truly tiring week for both me and Haffby.. We woke up, off we went to work and came home, and soon after Isya' prayers, we started baking and baking... of course we intended to sell MynnKies :)

Alhamdulillah, with the supports from le parents in law, they suggested to sell Dadih as well as Coconut Jelly :) I must say that my Mom In Law punya recipe for coconut jelly is superb okeh! Bila masuk tekak je rasa macam sejuk je, macam sedap je..hmmm.. *gaya Shasha femes tu cakap kan*

What we gained? much much experience... I must admit that since the SC's Charity Sale, this is the biggest booth sale that I have ever participated for my very first time... Well, as it is stated up there, this fair is mainly for those who are selling sweets, desserts, and etc.. therefore, we are not really looking forward for the income, yet we really strive for experience, to see the market potential of our product...

Blessingly lucky, we had the owner of Heliz Cookies as the vendor next to us... the owner is very friendly, keep motivating us to get more serious in business.. she also shared some tips and ways to be a successful entrepreneur...

I learnt a lot... a lot is referring to a whole lot... and true enough, after that weekend, I started to view things not only as an entrepreneur, but I also view things in the perception of customers/buyers as well...

Therefore, since 2014 is not far neough from now... I guess it's time for me to start take my pen and paper and jot down what are the things to be improved on :)

Syukur, Alhamdulillah :)

Some of our Cookies and Marshmellow

MarsJar.. yums!

Fresh flowers :) 

Opening Ceremony of Sweet & Candy Fair 2013

A Happy Customer she is 

Supporting my new baby, PropnPop

Thank you guys!

Last but not least, the owner of Heliz Cookies