Happy Anniversary to Hafmynn!

Salam!!!
Hehe... apesal tahun ni ada habit delay memanjang eh? asyik belated je... Dari besday suami hari tu, semua entry pun belated... saya sangat ketienggalan zaman lorh! :D

Okay sebenarnya ada cerita la.. bukan sebab suka suki je nak delay posting..hehe...

Al Kisahnye gini ye.... On that very day before our 2nd wedding anniversary, Haffby ada ajak dating dekat One Utama... katanya dah lama tak tengok wayang dengan sang isteri yang semakin besar bagaikan Johan inihhh.... So, haritu dah plan dah.. after our religious class, nak solat zuhur and terus chow to the mall... Unfortunately, pagi tu bangun bangun je dah rasa tak sedap badan and macam mata kelabu satu macam... masa tu ingat less sugar ke ape badan ni?

So, I cakap kat dia yang i nak rest dulu... lepas zohor tengok macamana... sekali. amekkaw! tertidur sampai almost Asar and I got up... went to him and said sorry that I was not able to make it... being as cool as always, dia just senyum and cakap "It's okay, you just rest okay?"...

Jadi, I was having a terrible chill fever sampai la hari Selasa... semua tusyen cancel, semua aktiviti nak mengemas rumah pun terbantut sebabnye memang tak larat and lay flat on the bed sahaja... anniversary pun very simple... (tu la, orang tua tua kata jangan nak excited melampau sangat, ni lah padahnye)

However, the day had come pun hari tu... he wished me first while I'm still drowsy on the bed, baca wish dia dekat FB... hehe! wah,sangat zaman University kan? Semua pakai handphone hajooooo...

Anyway, to my husband..

Happy Anniversary to you,B. You show me that love in reality is not as the same at all in those fairy tales, but to make it happen, we have to work for it kan? May Allah bless you and thank you for being you.. Looking forward to spend more and more time with you.. :) Love you always, suami! 

A Day to The Exact Date: Little Things Matter (At Times)

Salam :) 

As promised, I will be sharing my own thoughts and experience being a wife for almost two years.. However, sekali lagi I nak pesan.. Tujuan I meluahkan dekat sini is not definitely to berlagak or what.. Tapi I just feel like sharing in a way boleh gain feedback from others about their opinion and stuffs regarding marriage life to develop ourself better kan.. Feel free to comment if there's anything that you feel like sharing :) 

Anyway, yes. As mentioned in the title above.. Little things matter.. Little things kat sini bukan bermaksud benda yang kecil diperbesar besarkan buat gaduh..

No, No, No! 

What I am trying to highlight is that in our daily life, tak semestinya marriage life only.. Benda yang orang buat untuk kita, walaupun tak mahal mana, walaupun tak besar mana.. Kita wajar hargai sesuatu tu. Terkadang, kita tak pun tau apa yang orang tu lalui untuk buat kita happy kan kan! 

Antara benda benda kecil yang kita leka kadang kadang is:- 

•Lupa nak cakap Thanks bila orang tolong

•Lupa nak say Please bila perlukan bantuan seseorang

•Susah nak balas senyuman orang, padahal free je kut dapat pahala ;p

•Alpa untuk bersyukur dengan apa yang orang bagi and tolong...

When it comes to marriage, I personally feel that ada banyak benda benda kecil, mudah and tak mahal pun boleh dilakukan untuk buat pasangan kita happy maaa... 

•Kalau kita tak mampu nak belanja, kita boleh try masak kat rumah untuk En Somi. Tak perlulah kita nak masak benda fancy, yang penting effort tu ada tau. :) 

•Salam tangan suami tu sebelum dia pergi mana mana. Tapi kalau dia nak p tandas tu ko jangan la buat pasal nak salam bagai.. Hahaha

•Sometimes, walaupun dah selalu sangat cakap.. Tak salah if kita cakap "I Love You" kat dia, tak kisah la through whatssap ke, telegram ke, telephone ke lan kan! 

•Simple question to make things go lively and perhaps lovely.. "Yang, how was your day today?".. Just to get your partner share about their day at work.. Of course you tak nak partner you end up stress and cakap dengan dinding kannnnn :p

•Kengkadang, benda yang dia buat tu.. Kita pun boleh buat.. Macam lipat baju, sidai baju, iron baju.. Tapi, tak salah pun buat dia happy and dihargai.. Always say Thank You, walaupun benda dia buat tu kecik je :) 

•Kalau dia marah ke apa, tak salah kalau kita diam and kalau tak nak keruhkan keadaan, say sorry first lorrrrr ;) 

•Walaupun dah kahwin, jangan hilang the sweetness. Maybe some couples forgot to be sweet. Why not pegang tangan bila jenjalan kat mall? malu? Hakktuiii. :p

I rasa these are some of the things that can make you ponder.. But I am sure there are many things tau..always remember it takes two to tango okay you olls! 

3 More Days to Hafmynn's Anniversary: A lookback :)

Assalamualaikum!

As previous year, I should be doing all these reflect and look back a week before the real date of our solemnisation.. But this year is kind of a busy year for me *padahal dah tak larat sebab asyik mengah and dah mula rasa penat. Maklum la, reaching 32 weeks bebeh!*

Okay, so the moment I am typing this, it is alreadh 23rd January 2015, which means it's going to be 3 more days for my marriage with le husband reaches 2nd year :) 

Eleh, mesti ada yang baca ni cakap I poyo ke ape ke kan, but lantak lah. This is my blog and I have reasons why I am doing this.. And nawaitu saya bukan la sebab saya nak berlagak or what, but this is ala ala tribute or a walk of memory lane gituhhhh...

Well, being a wife is not easy. In a way, apa apa pun mesti kena dahulukan suami.. Terkadang lupa yang kita ni terlalu rapat dengan family kita sebelum

kahwin, jadi dah macam terbiasa if kita dahulukan parents.. and this is including me I must say..

It takes a hard time for me to betul betyl faham konsep "dahulukan suami dulu no matter   what".. Bukan nak jadi kuno ke apa, tapi that's the fact. Did u know that even if your husband forbids you dari jumpa you parents, you just have to follow? Lucky me, my husband is not that kind of person.. Alhamdulillah,dia sangat  tolerate walaupun I kena faham yang dia play role as Along dalam adik beradik dia and he has to utamakan his parents juga.. Ingat ye, kalau melawan kita dah consider derhaka pada somi. Tak nak le gitchuu.. Hehe

So, how to elak from all this gaduh gaduh,tengking  tengking and tarik muka sesh? Well, I believe that communication is important.. In a way, kita kan perempuan.. We have our advantage of being a female to talk nicely with the husband.. After all, takkan la husband u nak makan u? Hehehe

Apa yang I sendiri experience is that.. Whatever things that you do, memang kena fikir betul betul. Lagi lagi kita ni perempuan, bila marah tu.. Kemainn.. Pikir la yang "laki den tak sayang den",  "tah pape tah, sikit sikit nak marah" atau pun asal gaduh sikit je "Jah nak balik rumah mak Jah. Jah tak kira".. Hai yang sampai nak balik rumah mak tu yang tak tahan tu.. Sampai bila nak ada attitude macam ni? Cer Jah blajar kira.. Hehehe :) 

Memang betul yang kita ni sangat la sensentap.. Haaa. Akak dah keluar vocab baru.. Sensitip plus kuat sentap = Sensentap.. Tu biasa la perempuan.. Tapi, I started to think about kenapa husband tu acted that way? asal dia macam hingaq sangat kalau tak dengar kata?

Alahaii.. Sebab dia sayang kita la wahai kawan kawan.. I admit, masa awal awal kahwin--> adegan tarik muka, ekspresi sinetron indonesia kalau bengang (kan dia pause ala ala 5 minit sebab nak focus muka bengang pelakon tu), cerita cinta korea yang suka tarik tali (bila laki kau pujuk kata sorry, kau beria tak nak, konon nak makan romantik, puiii) and many more tu adalah terjadi dalam hubungan.. Ate, dah namanya drama queen! :p

Namun.. I belajar yang kalau nak selamat.. Diam je dulu.. Sakit hati macamana, diam je dulu. Yang kau gaduh beria macam WWE tu apa dapat? Lelaki ni ego.. Kalaupun diorang salah, ko hengat diorang nak mengaku on the spot? Eh kamon lah.. Tengok cerita sembilu.. Awie yg marah kat erra tu pun ambik mood naik motor siar siar satu KL dulu tau sebelum pujuk Erra.. Kui kui kui :p

Anyway, apa yang penting.. Toleransi. Sakit macamana pun hati perempuan, ingatlah.. Suami kau bukannya sengaja nak marah marah ke ape.. Life is alearning  process.. Kalau kita boleh bertindak dengan baik, kenapa pula nak keruhkan keadaan?

Another thing I learnt is that.. And also

Practice ye.. Deep inside your heart memang la nangis nangis tahap menikam bantal bantal kekabu tu.. Tapi percaya la.. Istighfar dan zikir banyak banyak..Sangat membantu..

And jangan pernah rasa diri tu kesorangan.. Allah kan ada :) berdoa selalu ye..jadi marilah kita sama sama jadi isteri yang sabar dan munasabah diri inshaaAllah :) 

Cerita saya ni sebagai perkongsian ye.. Jangan pulak ikut mana yg tak baik ye kawan kawan :) 

Throwback Thursday:- 1st Anniversary Dinner

Salam and Hello All!

Yes, it is Thursday and it's throwback time!! *suka hati la nak buat hari apa hari Throwback! hahaha!* 

Ala, kalau nak kata throwback tu, takde lama banget... baru je hari tu..Bulan 1, tapi baru berpeluang nak hapdet semua benda kat sini yer!

Okay, so that day, Enchik Suami, aka Haffby dengan semangatnya cakap :"Yang, jangan lupa dinner malam ni..".. 

Whoah! *pause kejap, terkejut, terksima, terpanic, terharu, ter...terpikir nak pakai apa?LOL*

So, being me.. the Sarah Yasmin Azizan, I have always tons of questions to ask la kan.. seperti "Eh, ye ke? Kat mana?" and "Makanan dia makanan cemana?" and "B, I nak pakai apa?" and "Jauh tak?" AND "Reservation pukul berapa?"... hahaha..serious kepoh dot kom aku ni kan?

Jakun tu agak la sebabnya I know my husband ni... dia ni kalau bab bab nak buat serprais ni memang Epic sikit... I selalu dapat sense dulu... muahahahah! Anugerah tuhan maa, tak boleh kata apa la :p

So, bila dia kata dia nak bawak somewhere tu rasa macam.. bahagianyeee! *gedik, lempang please*

Jadi, malam ahad tu 26.012014, we head off to Masjid Bangsar and definitely dalam otak tu dah pikir "Confirm tempat ni dekat dengan Bangsar"...hahah.. yeap true enough, lepas Solat Maghrib, terus kami maju ke destinasi ye!

Rupa - rupanya pak cik dah reserve a table for two dekat The Ril's Bangsar... wah wah wah, fine dining okay! :) Sangat teruja, lepas berapa tahun kenal, after all those hardship and memories we went together for the past 7 years, dapat makan something really special... FYI, this is the second super special things that he made, and nanti tunggu ye, kalau ada masa i hash tag throwback balik macamana he popped out the question.. KaaaaChing! :p

Okay, based on the review on this restaurant, they serve nice fine dining and world class cocktails! amekkaw! Check it out here :)

Jadi, malas nak cakap banyak. I belanja you olls gambar ok? :)

Menu oh Menu

Starter... the nice and warm bread :)

To be eaten with these series of butter and dips :)

My Appetizer :- ntah apa tah... tapi potato... hahah

Mine! Baked Mac and Cheese 

His - beef steak! :D 

We.Us.Haffmynn

Hafmynn's 1st Wedding Anniversary

Salam!

Tadaaaaa.. Alhamdulillah, it's been a wonderful journey of 1 year and 4 days of our marriage... I must say that it is very early, macam baby jagung... But, what more can I asked for? Thankful enough... :) 

Since those younger days, I have a lot of conversation with momsie about marriage, family and actually more towards maintaining responsibilities as not only a girl... Mama selalu pesan, jadi perempuan ni bukan senang... we have to know how to really bring ourself, especially bila dah kahwin... chewah, look at me now, Mama! A girl who develops to be a lady...amboiii! kellas tak ayat mak? 

And true enough... life is always challenging.. the fact that you can never get anything you want, yes? however, that doesn't mean that the attempt on making something real shall stop there... Therefore, I learnt that if you want something to happen, you gotta work for it bebeh!

To me, marriage it self has taught me a lot in decission making, time management, the awareness of responsibilities... and most important, the need to fall in love with the same person daily :)

As it is said... "Indah nya perkahwinan".. yes it is, but need to remember, it needs two to tango :)

And to the love of my life, I love you beyond words, to the moon and back, and 'till Jannah I want to be with you :) Love you, Hafiz Ismail :) 

2 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Salam Salam Salamm :) 

Hehe.. okay fine.. you can punish me sebab tertinggal 2 hari.. but after all, it's good what? So that orang kurang menyampah kan? hahah! Nanti if you were to read all these marshmellow posts mesti macam malu dan tak hengen... lalu tiada selera nak melawat my belog,no? :p

Last three days, as I was busy doing some spring cleaning for our room, I spontaneously have the point to share with you about the differences between life before married and after married.. now now now, calm down anak anak! :D 

Okay, as life goes on..marriage is about RESPONSIBILITY :) true enough, we are all born with responsibilities, but more responsibilities to come after you decided to commit in certain things, yes? :)

Bila dah kahwin, your priority tends to change..maybe last time, you tend to think about yourself, tapi sekarang ni, there are more to think. :) some might not notice, some are aware... let's just go through some of the list:-

1. Sebelum kahwin, you eat for yourself... cari makan and not to think much about others at home sebab most of us have that thinking "confirm semua dah makan ni... ada kaki, ada tangan... buat semua sendiri!".. muahaha.. kejam? I know right.. but this will change eventually... You akan rasa lebih bertimbang rasa, or concern after kahwin.. sebab fikir.. suami u dah makan? everything is well prepared tak? Ingat Mak Cik cakap awal awal... tak nak kan jadi Isteri Durhaka? muahaha
2. Sebelum kahwin, jangan harap la nak basuh toilet ke ape setiap minggu... but hallu ladies, things are started to change...sebab automatically, you will always want the best for everything, yes? 
3. Sebelum kahwin, pack barang semua sendiri punya barang bila nak travel.. Sekarang? ha...semua kena tolong fikirkan.. :) 

In a way, life as a wife... it doesn't mean that you are just being a wife and to obey what your husband said... it's more towards carrying your responsibilities with effort, as well as to share what's your expectation, as well as you hubs.... 

Marriage life ni.. SPMS atau KPI tu doesn't limit to only twice a year.. it's all about reflecting... and kita sebagai wife, I believe it's really cliche for us to hold the title as manager in the family... of kos la  the hasbens jadi CEO :) 

At the end of the day, that's the bottom line.... mind to commit in more responsbilities? However, i never regret it :)



tick tock tick tock! soon... 26th January 2014 :D

5 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Assalamualaikum!
Yo, what's up?
As promised, this week will be a special week dedicated to my wedding anniversary ye! :)

Since we are five days away from our wedding anniversary, let me share with you another difference of before and after married,ye? :) I mentioned something else yesterday, siap ada drum rolls kan... today is another difference... and it's:-

You have 2 Families Now :) 

Yeap, true enough... Sebelum bercinta, tak dinafikan semua orang akan cuba memenangi hati bakal bakal mertua diorang... masa tu, belajar masak la.. nak pergi "menghadap" sanggup g beli baju baru ye tak? atau tak pun malam sebelum "menghadap" tu, habis satu lemari digodam nya.. kan? haha.. used to that...

I have to say that sebelum kahwin, a lot of riddles in your mind thinking about the norms that your "new" family have, their culture, their usuals and all la ek..

With Mom in Law

Tapi Alhamdulillah, after kahwin.. and when I get the chance to get to know my new family better, i am very thankful for having them as well...Very supportive, though some times my brothers in law can be too cheeky at times.. LOL.. To be frank, it's not easy to cope up with things.. ye la, nak jadi isteri yang baik, menantu pilihan, anak yang disayangi kedua ibu bapa, kakak yang pengasih, cewah... kan? Tak payah blajar tinggi sangat pun, tapi, tanggungjawab dah ada banyak dah.. Alhamdulillah, through thick and thin... I am coping up well.. tak caya? tanya la hasben i :p

Masa Raya 2013 - Ignore my selekeh-ness :D

With new auntie, new cousin :)

One of my brothers in law :)

So, kalau dah kahwin... there's no such things as pikir only the husband and wife sahaja... no such things as the world of both of you... but we have to be considerate, tolerate and accept whatever strength and weaknesses. :)

My Family :) 

Ha.. cukup la untuk hari ini ok? Apa pun, thank you, Alah for giving me the best parents in the world and the awesome parents in law in the world, Aminn!

6 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Salam Semua!

Yesss, I know... I know that the title resembles ke poyo-an blogger ini..namun...ada mak cik kisah? Ateeeee, dah kome datang sini nak membace, mak cik blanje jer ceghiter... ape susah sangat? :) 

So, yes! 6 more days until we are one year married.. we? siapa kah we? Awie? Ecewah! Of course me and Mr Haffby.. Yes, to think back... time flies so, and really or rather I should say VERY fast! 

Therefore, i'm gonna make entries, more like a countdown on my wedding anniiversary *which i doubt Haffby is reading it - well at least, if  am no longer in the world, my kids could read this and wonder how their momma rocks it all.. Teehee* 

Letak la gambar kitorang...kata feeling kann! :D

We are going to start the countdown by sharing differences of before married and after married... hehe! I know, mesti yang belum kahwin macam excited nak baca, while the ones yang dah kahwin confirm tertunggu tunggu nak tengok ada sama atau tak... kan! hahah... 

Since there are 6 more days to come... Jadi, let's just start with A difference first okeh! :) 

And here goes... the first difference is.... 

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Drum Rolls.....trrrrrrummmmmmmmmm pam pam pammm..dum cak dum cak *eh?*

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Okay... perbezaan pertama:

  Bila Selisih Faham, Tak Boleh Lari Mana Dah! 

Haha... forgive me if this sounds so odd atau macam kureng... but this is the fact... Last time, zaman zaman bercinta dulu...kalau gaduh sikit je, boleh la lari... kat hostel, boleh la kunci and kurung diri dalam bilik sendiri... pakai kelas kosong main nyorok nyorok, pastu yang tak sakit pun berlakon sakit.. tak nak jumpa bagai..ala ala drama swasta kanss! oh yes, dengan harapan,, besok tu encik boypreng nak pujuk bagai la? 

Tapi..cer citer dengan mak cik.. macamana nak lari kalau dah kahwin? Ha...jangan carik pasal la wei.. Gaduh beria -ia, kalau nak kunci diri dalam bilik pun payah, sebab malam tu..abe nak tido mana? Kang tak bagi masuk, jadi pulak bini durhaka.. ish ish ish! heheh! Kann.. mana lak nak lari? 

But to think back... this is the beauty of marriage..during those days, you tend to argue, avoid and never realise what are the things that should be done... but lepas kahwin..things changed... yes, argument is always there... tapi, you tend to solve it accordingly and this is where tolerance takes place.. this can also help you get to know your partner well.. :) 

Jadi... bagaimana? Excited dengan entry harini? ahha... Nantikan another difference besok :)