Hafmynn's 1st Wedding Anniversary

Salam!

Tadaaaaa.. Alhamdulillah, it's been a wonderful journey of 1 year and 4 days of our marriage... I must say that it is very early, macam baby jagung... But, what more can I asked for? Thankful enough... :) 

Since those younger days, I have a lot of conversation with momsie about marriage, family and actually more towards maintaining responsibilities as not only a girl... Mama selalu pesan, jadi perempuan ni bukan senang... we have to know how to really bring ourself, especially bila dah kahwin... chewah, look at me now, Mama! A girl who develops to be a lady...amboiii! kellas tak ayat mak? 

And true enough... life is always challenging.. the fact that you can never get anything you want, yes? however, that doesn't mean that the attempt on making something real shall stop there... Therefore, I learnt that if you want something to happen, you gotta work for it bebeh!

To me, marriage it self has taught me a lot in decission making, time management, the awareness of responsibilities... and most important, the need to fall in love with the same person daily :)

As it is said... "Indah nya perkahwinan".. yes it is, but need to remember, it needs two to tango :)

And to the love of my life, I love you beyond words, to the moon and back, and 'till Jannah I want to be with you :) Love you, Hafiz Ismail :) 

2 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Salam Salam Salamm :) 

Hehe.. okay fine.. you can punish me sebab tertinggal 2 hari.. but after all, it's good what? So that orang kurang menyampah kan? hahah! Nanti if you were to read all these marshmellow posts mesti macam malu dan tak hengen... lalu tiada selera nak melawat my belog,no? :p

Last three days, as I was busy doing some spring cleaning for our room, I spontaneously have the point to share with you about the differences between life before married and after married.. now now now, calm down anak anak! :D 

Okay, as life goes on..marriage is about RESPONSIBILITY :) true enough, we are all born with responsibilities, but more responsibilities to come after you decided to commit in certain things, yes? :)

Bila dah kahwin, your priority tends to change..maybe last time, you tend to think about yourself, tapi sekarang ni, there are more to think. :) some might not notice, some are aware... let's just go through some of the list:-

1. Sebelum kahwin, you eat for yourself... cari makan and not to think much about others at home sebab most of us have that thinking "confirm semua dah makan ni... ada kaki, ada tangan... buat semua sendiri!".. muahaha.. kejam? I know right.. but this will change eventually... You akan rasa lebih bertimbang rasa, or concern after kahwin.. sebab fikir.. suami u dah makan? everything is well prepared tak? Ingat Mak Cik cakap awal awal... tak nak kan jadi Isteri Durhaka? muahaha
2. Sebelum kahwin, jangan harap la nak basuh toilet ke ape setiap minggu... but hallu ladies, things are started to change...sebab automatically, you will always want the best for everything, yes? 
3. Sebelum kahwin, pack barang semua sendiri punya barang bila nak travel.. Sekarang? ha...semua kena tolong fikirkan.. :) 

In a way, life as a wife... it doesn't mean that you are just being a wife and to obey what your husband said... it's more towards carrying your responsibilities with effort, as well as to share what's your expectation, as well as you hubs.... 

Marriage life ni.. SPMS atau KPI tu doesn't limit to only twice a year.. it's all about reflecting... and kita sebagai wife, I believe it's really cliche for us to hold the title as manager in the family... of kos la  the hasbens jadi CEO :) 

At the end of the day, that's the bottom line.... mind to commit in more responsbilities? However, i never regret it :)



tick tock tick tock! soon... 26th January 2014 :D

Terima Kasih, Daun Keladi :)

Hi hi Hi! 

Sebenarnya nak update ni few days back, tapi dek sibuk kejorkan anniversary, terlupa je asyik! aisey, Asyik Terlupa.. tengok, cakap pun dah berterabur-isation! :D 

Anyway, kita nak cakap thank you kat empunya blog sebab promote cookies kita...and photo booth kita... :) thank you so much! semoga murah rezeki anda dan panjang umur... hehe! And yes, you guys can follow her too, sebabnya dia punya belog sangat kiut, sebab owner dia pun kiut! :) Her name is Mira Adzlia :) follow her here okays? 

5 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Assalamualaikum!
Yo, what's up?
As promised, this week will be a special week dedicated to my wedding anniversary ye! :)

Since we are five days away from our wedding anniversary, let me share with you another difference of before and after married,ye? :) I mentioned something else yesterday, siap ada drum rolls kan... today is another difference... and it's:-

You have 2 Families Now :) 

Yeap, true enough... Sebelum bercinta, tak dinafikan semua orang akan cuba memenangi hati bakal bakal mertua diorang... masa tu, belajar masak la.. nak pergi "menghadap" sanggup g beli baju baru ye tak? atau tak pun malam sebelum "menghadap" tu, habis satu lemari digodam nya.. kan? haha.. used to that...

I have to say that sebelum kahwin, a lot of riddles in your mind thinking about the norms that your "new" family have, their culture, their usuals and all la ek..

With Mom in Law

Tapi Alhamdulillah, after kahwin.. and when I get the chance to get to know my new family better, i am very thankful for having them as well...Very supportive, though some times my brothers in law can be too cheeky at times.. LOL.. To be frank, it's not easy to cope up with things.. ye la, nak jadi isteri yang baik, menantu pilihan, anak yang disayangi kedua ibu bapa, kakak yang pengasih, cewah... kan? Tak payah blajar tinggi sangat pun, tapi, tanggungjawab dah ada banyak dah.. Alhamdulillah, through thick and thin... I am coping up well.. tak caya? tanya la hasben i :p

Masa Raya 2013 - Ignore my selekeh-ness :D

With new auntie, new cousin :)

One of my brothers in law :)

So, kalau dah kahwin... there's no such things as pikir only the husband and wife sahaja... no such things as the world of both of you... but we have to be considerate, tolerate and accept whatever strength and weaknesses. :)

My Family :) 

Ha.. cukup la untuk hari ini ok? Apa pun, thank you, Alah for giving me the best parents in the world and the awesome parents in law in the world, Aminn!

Sedari Diri Please..

Salam Semua, pernah tak terfikir kenapa kita susah nak dapat apa kita nak?

Benda mcm ni semua terpulang pada diri kita balik.. Biasa la.. Pi mai, Pi Mai.. Tang tu jugak ye? 

Sometimes kita sebagai manusia ni selalu terpikir.. Why did I not get this? Why am i not as fortunate as them and all? And haih..kalau nak cakap pasal benda ni.. Rasanya 10k soalan pun tak terjawab tau.. 

Kita selalu tanya "Kenapa?" Atau kita selalu mula dengan ayat "Kalau Lah...".. Tapi pernah tak kita betul betul duduk dan fikir.. Cukup ke usaha yang diusahakan? Adakah benar percakapan ku? Adakah betul tindakan ku?

Bukan apa.. Kejayaan seseorang, jatuh naik seseorang, jodoh dan ajal seseorang memang sudah pun ditentukan oleh allah SWT, dan kita hanya perlu bertawakkal.. Tapi, bertawakkal perlu la bersepadu dengan usaha, ye dak? Betul tak apa mak cik cakap ni? 

I guess this is all the norm that we have with us.. Percaya atau tak, kita ni hanyalah kerdil.. Tapi tu lah, kedekut and tamak.. Allah dah bagi banyak ni, kita nak banyak lagi.. Tapi, adakah kita sebenarnya bersyukur bahawa sekuranf kurangnya, hidup kita tak macam orang lain.. Berperang, uzur, kebuluran?

Pesan Mak Cik satu je.. Bersyukur.. Ucapkan Alhamdulillah.. Dalam bab rezeki ni semua, memang kita kena usaha sebaik mungkin.. Namun, ingat ye kawan kawan..

"Janganlah kita meminta minta jika tak diberi, janganlah menolak jika diberi".. Dalam erti kata lain, bersyukur dengan apa yang ada.. :) 

After all, is it so difficult to just say this daily:- "Alhamdulillah".. :)

Think about it ya..

Not only for you, but this is also for me :) 

6 days to First Year Marriage Anniversary :)

Salam Semua!

Yesss, I know... I know that the title resembles ke poyo-an blogger ini..namun...ada mak cik kisah? Ateeeee, dah kome datang sini nak membace, mak cik blanje jer ceghiter... ape susah sangat? :) 

So, yes! 6 more days until we are one year married.. we? siapa kah we? Awie? Ecewah! Of course me and Mr Haffby.. Yes, to think back... time flies so, and really or rather I should say VERY fast! 

Therefore, i'm gonna make entries, more like a countdown on my wedding anniiversary *which i doubt Haffby is reading it - well at least, if  am no longer in the world, my kids could read this and wonder how their momma rocks it all.. Teehee* 

Letak la gambar kitorang...kata feeling kann! :D

We are going to start the countdown by sharing differences of before married and after married... hehe! I know, mesti yang belum kahwin macam excited nak baca, while the ones yang dah kahwin confirm tertunggu tunggu nak tengok ada sama atau tak... kan! hahah... 

Since there are 6 more days to come... Jadi, let's just start with A difference first okeh! :) 

And here goes... the first difference is.... 

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Drum Rolls.....trrrrrrummmmmmmmmm pam pam pammm..dum cak dum cak *eh?*

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Okay... perbezaan pertama:

  Bila Selisih Faham, Tak Boleh Lari Mana Dah! 

Haha... forgive me if this sounds so odd atau macam kureng... but this is the fact... Last time, zaman zaman bercinta dulu...kalau gaduh sikit je, boleh la lari... kat hostel, boleh la kunci and kurung diri dalam bilik sendiri... pakai kelas kosong main nyorok nyorok, pastu yang tak sakit pun berlakon sakit.. tak nak jumpa bagai..ala ala drama swasta kanss! oh yes, dengan harapan,, besok tu encik boypreng nak pujuk bagai la? 

Tapi..cer citer dengan mak cik.. macamana nak lari kalau dah kahwin? Ha...jangan carik pasal la wei.. Gaduh beria -ia, kalau nak kunci diri dalam bilik pun payah, sebab malam tu..abe nak tido mana? Kang tak bagi masuk, jadi pulak bini durhaka.. ish ish ish! heheh! Kann.. mana lak nak lari? 

But to think back... this is the beauty of marriage..during those days, you tend to argue, avoid and never realise what are the things that should be done... but lepas kahwin..things changed... yes, argument is always there... tapi, you tend to solve it accordingly and this is where tolerance takes place.. this can also help you get to know your partner well.. :) 

Jadi... bagaimana? Excited dengan entry harini? ahha... Nantikan another difference besok :)

My Husband Turns 26

Hello,Salam!

Yeap, i've been hibernating for so long. I have lots of things to share.. And yes, look at the topic.. Alhamdulillah, my husband turns 26, last 14.01.2014..

Well, decided to go for something different this year.. And since this year is the first year for us to celebrate this day together, apa lah lagi kan.. Mak Jems telah bersepakat dengan Office Mate Haffby yang sangat helpful and not to forget, gorgeous.. Namanya Fatin.. She helped to organise a surprise luncheon for le birthday boy a day before his birthday.. (13.01.2014) and Alhamdulillah, it all went well :) Haffby pun memang terkezut zut zut :p

Pada malamnya pulak, he thought it's only my parents and I je nak blanja dia makan.. Rupa rupanya the whole Jijan's Crew.. Waiting for him at the restaurant.. We celebrated at Marhaba Restaurant, Publika.. Happy to see everybody enjoyed their food and had such wonderful time :) 

Haa.. So here comes more exciting part.. The exact date of his birthday.. Nyehs! Pagi tu, i terpaksa tak bagitahu dia perkara sebenar.. *i'm sorry love, just wanted to surprise and make you happy on your 26th BornDay,gittew*.. so, off I went with my brother in law to fetch my youngest brother in law kat Ampang.. Ya Allah, rasa bersyukur sangat sebab segalanya dipermudahkan.. Kebetulan besday boy ada pulak masuk pertandingan kawad kaki comes berarak sempena Maulidur Rasul di Masjid Besi.. 

Tapi, disebabkan bagi alasan nak ambik eye glasses, gigihkan diri jugak menyeret my two brothers in law to come with me to Sunway Pyramid and take my glasses.. Phewh, nasib la sempat.. Tak dapat nak bayangkan kalau kena ambik on weekends.. Ampun, tak sanggup dengan nak hadap jam dan mencari parkir lagi.. Aduhhhh!!

Okay, biasa la ye.. Kalau i dah start bercerita, memang drama tu xboleh lari dari Sarah Yasmin Azizan ni.. hehe! Back to the story, all of is managed to work on another surprose for him.. This time around kat Wadihana Islamic Steakhouse, Bangi.. Ahhhaaa... Memang besday boi terkezut zut zut lagi and biasa la...i'm married to a very sensitive and emotional boi.. Jadi menitik skitttt air matanye.. Sebab dapat berkumpul dgn adik adik and parents together.. Siapa tak happy kalau dapat berkumpul dengan family kann??

Well Haffby, i really hope that this will be something meaningful for you.. I don't have much money to buy you luxorious things, I however have a heart to put effort in trying to make you happy.. :) 

Happy 26th Love. May Allah bless you.