Resolution: Reorganising Things and Looking for the Solutions

Hello!
Still, it's not too late for me to wish myself and everybody a happy new year and welcome 2015. As stated in my previous post on the ups and downs of my 2014... I am pretty sure everybody has their own experience kan?

So, what is your resolution?  to me.. resolution is more towards organising things from what to be prioritised from the most important and least important.... and yes, once when it's organised, we gotta look for solutions and alternatives to make it work kan? :D

2015

• Earlier part of the year, I have to work hard to find part time jobs to cover my expenses. Currently, i'm now at my third trimester of pregnancy and it's quite impossible for people to hire pregnant lady, especially when they have reached their third trimester. Kind of susah. Right? Lagi lagi bila pikir balik how the previous company had treated me.. MashaaAllah, ngeri!
• March, the little one will be in my arms - InshaaAllah, If he really follow the cycles of 40 weeks of pregnancy, the baby is expected to arrive and meet everyone on the 21st March 2015. Seriously, not that far from now you see :)
• I want to stay focus on my responsibilities as a wife, daughter, sister and a friend. I know i have not much time but the considerations on things to be prioritised take place here.. and yes, added to another responsibility --> being a mom!
• To commit seriously in my masters education... this is no kidding... i've worked hard and committed in my second semester, thinking about how much I messed things up during my first semester... Frankly, I started to feel the good vibes, with the help and cooperation with fellow friends. 
• Well, basically I want  to just work hard to get my dream career, to work in one of the local institutions as a lecturer and keep my mouth shut.. boleh? :)
• Of course, to be a better muslimah :) sama sama la kita belajar ok? 

Well, that's about mine... what about yours? Remember, organise, and look for solutions and aternatives --> that's make resolutions be motivation :D 

The BitterSweet of 2014

Salam and hello!

I'm currently in front of my notebook, smiling and thinking about where to start.... true, some of my friends did contact me and asked me what happened to me? where have I gone missing and the 'kasar' but 'sayang' remarks like "hidup lagi ke tak tuan punya blog ni?"... hahah! yes, i'm still alive and getting lively day by day... 

2014... hmm, not just a plain number, not an ordinary year for me... this is going to be a long post... why? I shall start with things that I wish to recap throughout the journey in 2014... true enough, life is like a wheel...

My 2014 started with the beautiful celebration of my husband's birthday... he turned 26 this year and I am thankful for having supportive and loving family members around me to help me made the celebrations happened..and not to forget, his friends at his office who managed to work it out :) banyak betul celebration awak ye cik abang? Simply because I love you okay,, :D

Haffby and I on our 1st Wedding Anniversary. Love u Mucho!

Then, comes March,,, I was notified that my contract at my previous company *which I really enjoyed and had fun working and meeting new people other than gained new experience* was not to be continued... Sad, devastated and depressed - I have to admit... but thinking about motivation and words from people around me -- this is life, it has to go on and that's the cycle of life... always expect the unexpected kan? :)

This is my favourite clas- the subject, the lecturer and the people. oh btw, honored to have my lecturer as my thesis supervisor.. looking forward :D 

this #wefie will not happen if Farouuk didn't invite us to! oh yes, Farouk is our only male student in my class and he's a very capable guy. go find him, buy coffee and pray hard to be his soulmate. *wink wink!*

I felt better, thinking that there will be better opportunities await for me... and whilst I'm also furthering my masters in ESL - don't ask me why, my passion for teaching and talking are just in me,,, hehe..  So, there came June... worked with one of the colleges in Malaysia - no doubt enjoyed teaching..  BUT..... *a long, deep, SIGH*...

oh yes, before June came, there came May and we are all happy to witness a happy couple tied the knot... they are my cousin and good friend.. Alhamdulillah, after all the ups and downs that they went through, they ended those with a beautiful wedding and inshaaAllah marriage till Jannah, inshaaAllah.. i'm happy for both Emi and QissyFurbee.. :)

the cute and adorable couple. sayang ketat ketat!

Then came Ramadhan,,, at this time, I was just a few weeks working at my new workplace.. and Alhamdulillah.. I was confirmed pregnant.. and I'm beyond happy with the news and thankful that Allah heard my prayer... This is so going to be emotional... thinking about what Haffby and I need to go through for our one year and 6 months' marriage, finally our junior is going to be in our arms soon :)

Moi at 28 weeks (26 December, 2014)

Added with another happy news, QissyFurbee was too, confirmed pregnant.. so we both are officially preggers now and our due date is really close to each other,, Kuasa Allah SWT.. :)

Wrote this when I was invigilating examination @ 19, going 20 weeks of Pregnancy :)

As the days went by, we received another cute family member.. it is Muhammad Ali Zidane, the son of my brother and my sister in law.... this boy is so cute and manja,,,, now he's almost going to be 5 months and I tell ya, he can really melt your heart..comel sangat! :)

Kak Adreanna and Baby Zidane. They are adorable, kan! :D

Still, the bonding between me, Aqeef and Adreanna are also going well.. both of them are growing up too fast and with my condition right now, I can't be doing much other than entertaining them while grasping for air! hahaha! :)

When it comes to friendship, biasa la.. people come and go.. i'm no longer being so emotional and hanky panky thinking about kenapa kawan tu dah tak nak kawan dengan kita, kenapa macam aku syok sendiri and all.. to me, this is life.. Yasmin, you just have to accept the fact that people change and you change as well but you didn't notice it.. therefore, with the preference of #watlekwatpeace , i'm happier and never felt better...

The new friends that I'm glad to meet :) 

This is Elly, mommy of Elnaz, My partner in crime for EDU770A2 :D  - we can talk like forever! :D

But of course along the way, God send somebody for you to meet... as cliche as it sounded, either it's a blessing or a lesson... me? i regard both... in a way, new comers in your life are blessings in a way that there must be reason why God wants you to know her and why she needs to know you and etc... a lesson? eh come on la.. takkan la everytime cakap pasal lesson you dah senyum sinis thinking about it is satu penyesalan? heheh.. it could be a good lesson as well.. so far, Alhamdulillah.. 2014 has been pretty easy going year for me...

However, to be honest.. though personally my year has been going on okay and pretty good, to see t.. the people around me, especially in Malaysia is worrying,, the floods, the missing airplanes and so on... true enough that 2014 is a truly challenging year for us in Malaysia, but one thing for sure.. never give up praying for the miracle to happen... inshaaAllah, the year 2015 would be a better year for us all :)

Al Fatihah 

Oh yes, since this is quite long perhaps I would want to continue my so called 2015 resolution in the next post :)

Take care lovely readers, yes.. I miss you as much as you miss me *okay, perasan!* :)

When You Have Too Many Things to Prioritised

Salam..
yes, sebagai manusia... kita kena tau mana satu nak diutamakan... and to create a list of things to be prioritised is not easy task... and I, too have to admit this as well...

I have not been blogging for almost 2 months,... though there just many things that I wish to share here...

True of what some people believe in... many things can happen in so little time...

So, how has everybody doing? is everything good?

As for me, I learnt that patience is very important in dealing with everyday life.. kan? :)

Well, hope to spam more with my upcoming post :D

Smile Smile Goat (Part I)

Hi....
Have you heard the Malay sayings of "Senyum Senyum Kambing" ? Ha... me myself pun tak pernah la pulak nak perhatikan seekor kambing senyum macam mana sedangkan muka dia bagi i memang 'toya' memanjang...

Anyway, this post is not regarding me describing how does a goat smile and even what are the steps that one needed to smile like a goat. No!!!!!! this is not about it... but this is related to what's happening around us... how we perceive things... okay, i will give examples di bawah yang akan membawa kepada senyum senyum kambing...


Situation 1: 
Kiah : Eh, cantiknya handbag kau Mon!
Maimon : Eh, thank you. Ala, you pun boleh beli la dear.
Kiah : I ni mana la ada duit... 

*beberapa bulan kemudian*

Maimon : Wah. Kiah. Ni bag baru ni. Latest design baru ni. 
Kiah : Eh, biasa je la. Lagipun i mana ada duit nak beli mahal mahal 

--> Dalam situasi ni, Kiah propa sangat sebab bag dia sebenarnya lebih mahal dari Maimon.. jadi situasi "Takde duit laa" tu benda yang sangat common.. memang kau takde duit la sangat, tapi berjoli sakan, beli bag baru. beli baju raya va va voom.. hado pulak kan?  


Situation 2
Gayah : Jom teman aku tengok wayang nak?
Limah : Eh, katanya kau nak keluar dengan Leman?
Gayah : Ah, nyampah la. Asyik berkepit denqgan Markonah je. Kita ni dia lupa kan. 
Limah: Aik? Jealous pulak? Sejak bila tau jealous? Kata takde perasaaan kat Leman? *garu kepala jap*
Gayah : Ape kau cakap ni labu? Aku dengan Leman tu kawan je lah... Si Markonah tu yang tergedik gedik macam ulat beluncas... sibuk nak kat Leman!
Limah: Ye ke? Kau ni kalu ye pun tanya la dulu.. tak baik tuduh tuduh.. buatnya besok kau tau perkara sebenar baru kau tau. 
Gayah: Eleh, kalau dah rapat cenggitu kan ke ada something? sudah la, tak payah nak sejukkan hati aku... dah la, malas nak sebut nama  Markonah tu... menyirap!

*Setahun kemudian*

Limah jenjalan kat one of the va va voom shopping mall kat kay elle, ternampak la si Gayah dengan Markonah. 

Limah: Gayahhh.. buat apa kat sini?
Gayah ; Eh, Limah. errr... takde, saje je teman Markonah shopping.. kebetulan kami tak kerja hari ni.. hihihi 

--> So sekarang ni macamana? pernah tak dengar orang cakap... tak elok benci benci, nanti sayang....ingat lah ye, barangkali benda yang kita tidak suka boleh jadi barang yang terbaik dalam hidup kita... laaaaa ni, bukan barang je.. orang pun leh pakai konsep sama... faham ka? jadi toksah nak benci bagai la nokkk 


Situation 3 
Leha : I olls happy sangat sebab laki I olls bawak I olls pergi makan kat Tomato you olls!
Jah : Ha? Tomato? Kat ne tu?
Leha : ala..kat Va Va Voom Mall... sedap sangat tau... pergi la makan sana!
Jah : kau tu senang la cakap...aku mana reti.. aku orang kampung.... 


--> Ni la perangai masa kini orang melayu... suka benaw pakai ayat "Aku orang kampung" tu.. so the very one you know! Zaman sekarang ni, jangan la nak fe feeling kampung sangat.... siapa kata orang kampung tak boleh makan tempat mahal mahal? InshaaAllah, kalau dah tertulis rezeki tu, pasti ada... ni semua kat tangan Yang Maha Esa... so, statement 'aku orang kampung' tu dah boleh campak... sebab ramai je orang kampung berjaya dan tak mundur... blerghhh


Situation  4
Isteri: Bang, nanti balik tolong belikan sikit buah ye. 
Suami: Buah apa lak? 
Isteri: apa apa yang best la... rasa macam panas pulak hari ni...

*bila suami sampai rumah*

Isteri: Lahhh...apa abang beli ni ?
Suami: buah la...awak kata awak nak buah?
Isteri: Abang ni... saya nak buah pear.. kenapa beli apple?
Suami: Awak ni.... kang buat apple tu jugak jadi accessories tudung awak.. baru je tadi kata apa apa yang best... saya beli la buah apple..apple pun best apa? tu yang awak pakai macbook. ipad la bagai... kan ke apple tu?

--> Ha... ni lagi satu lah masalah normal suami isteri.... wahai isteri isteri semua (termasuklah diriku), oh juga kepada kawan kawan yang belum berumah tangga, tolong lah fahami bahawasanya golongan suami sangat lurus.... jangan kata buah, kalau kita kata beli daun pandan, boleh jadi sebab tak tahu banyak mana...satu pokok dia bagi... pakej sekali lah dengan kerengga semua.. haha :)


Jadi.. I rasa buat masa ni cukup la some situations yang sebenarnya memang boleh buat kita senyum sorang sorang... do u guys have any experience on this?

Well, happy reading and I just can't wait to update more *ok, aku tau ayat aku macam basi :)*

Updating the Updates to Keep you Updated

Olla!

I guess I  lupakan dulu niat pasal the new blog :D

Baik stick to this blog terus... haha! soon to be shared jugak kan?

Firstly, Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri buat semua umat Islam :) mesti semua tengah seronok and masih in Raya mood lagi kan? As for me, I am thankful that I still have the chance to celebrate eid with all the people around me... I feel so loved :) 

Anyway, I learnt that things are needed to be appreciated as much as it should be.. sometimes we tend to sulk and sigh when things happen but always forget to see how it can actually teach us to be a better individual kan? 

For example --> me, myself. I have a job now and this is what I've always wanted to do... tapi sebab other things yang should not really be my concern, I senang rasa macam nak cari kerja lain... But, I tend to forgot how hard other people strive to get a job while me? I already have a job and yet whining about that I need to learn to tolerate? Hmm.. 

This is so life and manusia... common people la kan.. never never enough of things given to them... kan? 

But this has really open my eyes to see that there are more unfortunate people out there and I should be grateful for things... 

Therefore, say Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah :) 

A new blog

Hi semua :)

Rindu sangat nak berblogging..

How have you guys been doing? :)

I hope everyone is having a good raya and holidays for those who are not celebrating ;)

Anyway, salam aidilfitri to all of the readers who always come and pay a visit to my blog.. :)

InshaaAllah a new blog is coming :) or tengok la macamanaaaaa :) 

Ramadhan 2014

Salam Ramadhan buat semua muslimin dan muslimat :)

I hope that it is not too late for me to share and wish everyone a warm Ramadhan greetings...
So, pejam celik pejam celik kita dah masuk 10 ramadhan terakhir.. i'm sure by now semua orang pun dah mula buat last minute shopping raya, masjid dipenuhi dengan muslimin dan muslimat untuk beribadah di bulan yang mulia ini, serta mood orang kat office pun dah tak berapa nak bekerja sangat la ek!

I am just thankful sebab masih berpeluang untuk menyambut Ramadhan kali ini... InshaaAllah, nanti  i will update more ya..

Truly, I miss my blogging life :)