Officially 20 plus 7

Assalamualaikum :) 

Dah lama sangat tak update and tak bercerloteh.. Rindu, banyak sangat benda nak update.. Tapi kekangan masa la yang buat iols terhegeh hegeh lalu termalas untuk berceloteh kat sini :) 

Alhamdulillah.. Semalam, 25.10.2015 genap umur saya 20 tambah 7.. Syukur, masih ada lagi masa untuk bernafas, and  inshaaAllah mendekatkan lagi diri dengan Pencipta kita, SubhanaAllah :) 

Azam baru dah masuk umur baru niiii adalah iols cuba untuk update blog as much as i could.. And another one is that.. To lose weight! 

Well.. Memandangkan semalam bday iols, Haffby terlebih menarik dan romantik that he brought me n our kid out for dinner.. Seriously, rasa sangat lain because for all this while i'm always at home with my son and rarely goes out to malls or restaurants.. Ala tak kisah, you wanna call me classic ke ape ke, i'm totally  okay with it.. Nothing much to  do at those places as I feel happier to spend time with my young boy at home, tengok dia membesar depan mata.. And tup tap, now he can crawl, cuba berdiri dengan jayanya namun tergolek dok, main buih air liur and yang paling champion --> tarik rambut mak dia, especially dekat tepi tepi telinga ni ha.. Rasa dia? Ohhh yeahhhh!!

Anyway, there's nothing to regret sepanjang 20 plus 7 hidup ni sebab nya banyak benda yang beri pengajaran kag diriku.. As for now, let's all be in the positive vibe kan? 

Till then!

Ramadan Datang Lagi!

Assalamualaikum.

Wuwuwuwuwu.. Rindunya nak berceloteh kat sini.. Hehehe.. Hope it's not too late for me to wish every Muslim A Happy and Meaningful Ramadan.. Semoga Ramadan tahun ni lebih baik dari tahun sebelum sebelum ni.. 

Hmm.. Serious.. Apa lagi ek nak bebel? :p

Bila Dah Jadi Mak Mak

Salam semua kawan kawan :) 

Lately rasa macam banyak gila benda nak hapdet tapi masa den ni asyik suntuk je jah.. Macamana? :p

Just nak update gak a few things.. Baru baru ni pergi Kenduri Doa Selamat and Akikah kawan i, who is also married to my cousin.. Seronok, makan kambing! Hehehe!

Tapi tu la.. As our age gets older, macam macam perubahan kita lalu kan? Dulu masa zaman kanak kanak riang, semua pun nak enjoy ye.. Now dah jadi isteri and mak budak, dah takde nak enjoy sangat, tapi enjoy cara lain.. Bawah anak g kenduri akikah kawan, wedding, pastu tak lupa jugak birthday party anak kawan.. Hahah! 

By the way, nah I blanja gambar! 

A Much Vacation Needed

 

Hey there.. 

My baby and I were taken by my beloved husband to join him for a trip to Kemaman as he has something to do over the weekend. Since I am no longer working, (the fact that I am working actually, as a full-time house wife and lifetime Mom), I decided to follow.. My husband pun cakap it's about time for me to chill and relax since nak meraikan I habis pantang 44 hari kann :) 

By the way, we are all set up and left Shah Alam at 1120am and sampai tol Jabor at around 1445.. And drive punya drive, we arrived Resorts World Kijal dalam pukul 1530, quite a distance la from Kuantan, but hey we are still in Cherating. 

Lucky that we are given a good place to chill, though memang jauh pun. Takde mall, takde apa pun. Our room is just nice that we got the beach view plus pool view ok? Hehe. Tak sabar nak bawak baby ARW to swim, but the Abi said jangan dulu.. Hehe.. Ok ok, what about morning walk kan? :) along the beach gittewww :p 

Well, hope to share more nanti. Tungguuuuu 

It's My Baby's First Outings!

Salam semua!

Bonda Min kembali untuk membebel disinun.. Semoha disanun membaca dengan gumbira yahhh! :) 

Jadi.. I am already at my 52nd day being a mom which means mak Jemah dah habis pantang chuoolls.. Maksudnya, kalau kita bincang pasal pantang, kita ada pantang 44 hari, 60 hari and 100 hari.. Ok apa beza? Ada beza hokeh.. I promise, nanti i tepek perbezaan tu dekat belog ini ok?

Yang penting now I am excited sebab dah habis pantang 44 hari.. Makanya boleh la kita jenjalan.. Namun, jauh kat sudut benak hatiku, I tak berani la nak keluar sakan.. Nanti terkejut anak aku hoiii ;) 

Ok, so first outing lepas pantang *ehemm.. Maknanya, sebelum 44 haritu ada la jugak keluar.. Tapiiiii, jumpa doktor for check ups and also pergi rumah nenek husband, and also pergi rumah MIL kat Putrajaya (since I berpantang di Shah Alam kan).. Haha, macam langgar pantang je dah kann?*  was keluar pergi Setia City Mall, sebab nak temankan Haffby potong rambut, plus pergi ke Mothercare sale.. Alhamdulillah, baby was behaving well sangat.. 

And then, pergi wedding kawan Haffby pulak dekat Pulapot,Setapak..pon sama, baby asyik sleep, tido and zzzz je. I believe that all babies are like that for the first few months ye tak? 

On Sunday, we brought him to see his grandparents kat Selayang pulak..

Aiyo, very adorable :) 

Hari ni pada Hari Wesak pula, dia dibawa untuk join Birthday Lunch my uncle di restoran Haslam. Makanan dah la sedap!

Ok la, that's all I nak update.. Before I sign off, here are some pics for me to blanjer :) 

What is with the title : Mother

Emak, Mak, Mama, Ibu, Mummy, Umi, Bonda - maksud ni semua sama.. Which is a person who carries child for 9 months and changed their lifestyle forever to take care of the child..

Assalamualaikum! 

I am back.. I thought blogging would be easier for me to express and to jot down memorable experiences here but nahhhh ahhh it's not easy though.. I have respect and salute those blogger moms yang mampu share their tips other than taking care of their children at the same time.. As for ahkak, I have to wait for my ARW to sleep, then only I can bebel here and happens to be that hari ni dia tidur extra nyenyak :p

What I'm about to share here is based on my personal experience... some might have the same and some might have total different experience... so, here goes:

• Sebelum ada anak, tidur kita memang nyenyak. You put bomb sebelah pun belum tentu terjaga *nahh..ni kena jaga jaga naa.. buatnya suami mintak izin nak kahwin lain tang tidur ke kan..buatnya kalau kita terkata "OK", kan satu hal tu..hahah* BUT, bila dah ada anak.... walaupun you mengantuk macamana pun, bila anak u bunyi EK sikit je, you dah terjaga! :D 
• Sebelum ada anak, you can take all the time you want in the shower. Kata je nak buat konsert apa pun, nak nyanyi sampai jiran sebelah subscribe youtube channel kau pun boleh kak oii...tapi, bila dah ada anak, kau jangan harap nak mandi selama mungkin bila nanti... haaa, kalau dapat mandi 5 minit tu kira bagus la *tapi, I still wangi okay*
• Sebelum bergelar seorang mak budak. you tend to scroll instagram account yang jual barang make up, skirt kembang, tudung lilit lip lap lip lop and semua untuk you.. tapi bila dah ada anak, apa lagi... follow ig barang budak je manjang... pastu sibuk berangan nak pakaikan itu ini..untuk ANAK... diri sendiri pikir belakang babe!
• Kalau dulu sebelum ada anak, nak google semua benda yang merepek binti kerapu... seperti apa gossip terkini kat beautifulnara la, kat siakap keli and all lah... but now when you have a child with you. memanjang google pasal baby... such as "why does my newborn farts a lot", "is it normal for my newborn to poo seldomly" , "is it okay to breastfeed my baby when I'm on medication"..and so on! tak caya? tunggu la nanti kome jadi makkkk! :p

At the moment, macam tu je la kot yang I rasa I ingat untuk share sebab sebenarnya banyak... tapi kita pelan pelan kayuh la dulu ye tak? :D 

Personally, being a mom is beautiful sebab it teaches me to be patience- dalam segala hal.. dari karenah anak, or even people around you yang kadang kadang bagi you perangai seperti nak hempuk je diorang dengan pampers bayi itu... namun, kau akan hanya tersenyum luas sajoooo :D 

Breastfeeding Journey - I thought it was..

Hey there!

Since I am a mom now, most of my priorities are set up to different phase.. in a way, I have another priority to set focus on which is my newborn baby... 

Well, everyone knows that mommies' milk would be the best choice to be given to the baby as it is rich with benefits, I tell ya! From those younger days, I always thought that breastfeeding is easy peasy as the mommies could just offer the boobs the baby and tadaa, that's it... the baby will suck and drink all he wants like nobody's business!

BUT! when it comes to my personal experience, I found that breastfeeding is challenging and really test your patience to see whether or not you are in this or you give up.. my choice was: to try and not to give up! 

I guess the error that I did was to feed my baby with a formula milk plus bottle at a very early age - when he was only 4 days in the world! *however, I am lucky still that I managed to get him drink the colostrum as it it said to be very good for the baby!* 

So, as days went by... It hurts to see that your baby does not want to drink directly from the boobs, seriously ... I know very well mana salahnya, it.s actually my very own fault that I biar je orang bagi anak I formula milk and now, baby ARW is still learning to latch even though he's already a month old..

I am not sure whether this is considered as Relactation or what, but I am not giving up on this.. bukan nya badan kita takde susu, ada je tapi I think he's more satisfied minum straighht from the bottle yang deras je aliran susu kan? Lagipun bila pam and letak dalam botol pun, it's already 2 oz siap jadi member pun puas la minum...

I am currently at my second week trying very hard to produce more and more milk... while doing lots of reading and blog hopping from one to another... I'm proud that some blogger moms are willing to share their tips regarding their breastfeeding journey...

Among my readings, I found many tips and thankful for their tips... antaranya adalah:

1. Drink plenty of plain and warm water (say the least is 3L per day -- ni pun boleh tolong korang kurus ok)
2. Healthy Diet (eat healthy meals : fruits, carbo, protein, etc) 
3. Halba and Habatussauda (to increase more milk)
4. Susu (well basically, you need susu to produce susu right? :p )
5. Pam, Pam and Pan (every 2 to 3 hours - MESTI!)
6. Most importantly, positive thinking .. stay optimism!

I envy those who can feed their babies directly, but at the same time.. they are also my source of inspiration not to give up... hehe, as for this mission.. i have my own mantra.. which is "I can do this, I can. I can produce milk, I can. I want my baby to have exclusive breast milk (EBM), "

Friends, wish me luck as this whole journey of pam and feed are not easy! 

Well, I am thinking to write more... next entry perhaps? :D

By the way, for all the mommies to be out there... perhaps you wanna visit all these blogs for your reference... hey, not only mommies to be, but also for mommies who wished to do Relactation :) come on, together we can! :D