Dah ada isi ke?

"Min, dah ada isi ke?"

Salam everybody...

Well, merujuk kepada soalan diatas... siapa yang tak nak anak? haih... before I bebel much, let's go through this so called standard cycle of life... 

• Childhood :
•  People will tend to ask you questions like "What do you wanna be when you grow up?
• Then, you akan pergi sekolah and make friends... pastu u will start your life as a teenager..
• Teenage:
• Orang akan mula tanya, nanti nak amek stream apa? Plan nak sambung belajar kat mana?
• and the famous warning from our Orang Tua, "Jangan nak berboifren/gerfren eh! Blajar dulu sampai habis.." 
• Pastu, you pun sambung ke alam tertiary level.. 
• Youths
• Orang akan sibuk "concern" about the place that you're furthering your study, atau pun current occupation you - to those yang tak sambung belajar... 
• Orang akan tanya - Eh, bila habis belajaR? Bila start practicum? and macam macam more la... 
• Adult- ish
• Working Life
• Masa ni you dah start kerja, orang akan sibuk compare gaji you dengan gaji anak anak orang lain, anak jiran, mak sedara punya anak tiri, atau paling kurang pun, compare dengan gaji depa dulu dulu...  ayat dia lebih kurang mcm ni "Oh, ok la tu... Acik dulu gaji macam tu dah boleh beli rumah", yada yada la mak cik
• Pastu standard ah... dah 2,3 tahun kerja.. soalan seterusnya "Bila nak kahwin?".. apa lagi, yang ada pasangan - berpeluh peluh kumpul duit, yang takde pasangan, naik shot otak sibuk nak carik soulmate bagai... 
• Marriage Life
• Bila kau dah kahwin, macam biasa la.... orang akan tanya pasal suami/isteri kerja mana, and paling best sekali bila you look "healthier" than before, orang akan cakap bini/ isteri u jaga dengan baik.. tapi bila makin cengkung "Eh, are you okay? Si A/B ada buat apa apa tak kat you?"... whatever~
• Then, lepas 5 bulan kahwin... takde pregnanti lagi, orang akan tanya "Planning ke?"  Memang takde isi lagi?" 

Well, that's how life is la actually.. mungkin tak ramai mengalami benda ni, tapi I bet most of us are right? Macam sekarang, i'm at the state of people asking me bila nak ada anak? takde isi ke? tak nak nak anak ke? I wish I can just explain and share that I memang nak anak.. tapi nak buat macam mana.. Allah tu maha esa, dia tau what's best for you.. My husband and I takde pun nak reject kalau rezeki tu ada... I can't even wait to raise the juniors us... I bet my children mesti petah bercakap that I maybe tak boleh nak attend... But who knows? All we can do now is to keep trying and also berdoa je kat Allah SWT... and for you readers, doa jugak kot! hehe... thanks!