A Day to The Exact Date: Little Things Matter (At Times)

Salam :) 

As promised, I will be sharing my own thoughts and experience being a wife for almost two years.. However, sekali lagi I nak pesan.. Tujuan I meluahkan dekat sini is not definitely to berlagak or what.. Tapi I just feel like sharing in a way boleh gain feedback from others about their opinion and stuffs regarding marriage life to develop ourself better kan.. Feel free to comment if there's anything that you feel like sharing :) 

Anyway, yes. As mentioned in the title above.. Little things matter.. Little things kat sini bukan bermaksud benda yang kecil diperbesar besarkan buat gaduh..

No, No, No! 

What I am trying to highlight is that in our daily life, tak semestinya marriage life only.. Benda yang orang buat untuk kita, walaupun tak mahal mana, walaupun tak besar mana.. Kita wajar hargai sesuatu tu. Terkadang, kita tak pun tau apa yang orang tu lalui untuk buat kita happy kan kan! 

Antara benda benda kecil yang kita leka kadang kadang is:- 

•Lupa nak cakap Thanks bila orang tolong

•Lupa nak say Please bila perlukan bantuan seseorang

•Susah nak balas senyuman orang, padahal free je kut dapat pahala ;p

•Alpa untuk bersyukur dengan apa yang orang bagi and tolong...

When it comes to marriage, I personally feel that ada banyak benda benda kecil, mudah and tak mahal pun boleh dilakukan untuk buat pasangan kita happy maaa... 

•Kalau kita tak mampu nak belanja, kita boleh try masak kat rumah untuk En Somi. Tak perlulah kita nak masak benda fancy, yang penting effort tu ada tau. :) 

•Salam tangan suami tu sebelum dia pergi mana mana. Tapi kalau dia nak p tandas tu ko jangan la buat pasal nak salam bagai.. Hahaha

•Sometimes, walaupun dah selalu sangat cakap.. Tak salah if kita cakap "I Love You" kat dia, tak kisah la through whatssap ke, telegram ke, telephone ke lan kan! 

•Simple question to make things go lively and perhaps lovely.. "Yang, how was your day today?".. Just to get your partner share about their day at work.. Of course you tak nak partner you end up stress and cakap dengan dinding kannnnn :p

•Kengkadang, benda yang dia buat tu.. Kita pun boleh buat.. Macam lipat baju, sidai baju, iron baju.. Tapi, tak salah pun buat dia happy and dihargai.. Always say Thank You, walaupun benda dia buat tu kecik je :) 

•Kalau dia marah ke apa, tak salah kalau kita diam and kalau tak nak keruhkan keadaan, say sorry first lorrrrr ;) 

•Walaupun dah kahwin, jangan hilang the sweetness. Maybe some couples forgot to be sweet. Why not pegang tangan bila jenjalan kat mall? malu? Hakktuiii. :p

I rasa these are some of the things that can make you ponder.. But I am sure there are many things tau..always remember it takes two to tango okay you olls!